just found out i miscarried - i feel so empty

[karens31]

i feel completely empty and so incredibly sad. this was my first pregnancy and after trying for over 18 months i was so excited (and shocked) when the test was positive. the spotting started at 6 weeks for a few days and then at 8 weeks, had a scan which showed a heartbeat but they dated at 6 weeks when i thought i was 9. said my dates must be wrong due to my irregular periods. i knew something was wrong deep down but hope won out..until the bleeding got heavier 4 days ago.

went back in today and they did a urine test which was so faint they said i'd had a complete miscarriage. didn't even do a scan. pain has been minimal and bleeding only light so it was still a huge shock.

now i feel like my world has fallen apart, can't stop crying and i can't imagine ever feeling happy again.

this is just so hard and i'm worried it could take ages to concieve again...

 

[Lilli]

Im so so, terribly sorry honey. Im sure words dont cover up your pain. My heart goes out to you darling.
Ive never lost a baby, and if i lost this one, i would fall apart.
Im so sorry for you loss, if you want to talk to someone, please pm me,
All my love,
Lilli x

 

[Jaidy]

Oh hunni, Im so sorry for your sad, sad loss we are all here for you.
Hugs xx

 

[sophie]

im so sorry for ur loss.
i know how ur feelin, it happened to me 4 wks ago.
if u ever need to chat pm me.
xx

 

[Lyn_no3]

I'm really sorry for your loss

 

[hayley1980]

very sorry hunni i had m/c last nov and i still feel empty! Best of luck to u in the future xxx

 

[rach]

so sorry for your loss hun xxxxxxxxx

 

[Vicky]

i'm so sorry hunny

 

[beckyNbump]

Hiya hun,
Im so sorry about you loss. I miscarried at 12 weeks. My baby would have been due on bonfire night last year. I felt empty at first and didnt grieve for a long time. I felt like everywhere I looked there was a pregnant woman or babies, it was really hard and I thought id never get over it. I blamed myself and thought if I had done things differently I could have prevented it, which of course I couldnt and now I realise that. I never thought id get pregnant again and went down a bad road of drinking, my way to cope I suppose. Now though I am 30 weeks pregnant and due a little boy in July. I know how you feel and I know that nothing anyone says will make you feel any better right now but I just want you to know that it will happen for you, and you will feel better, it may take a while but things will get better. I hope this has helped a little, and I wish you all the luck for the future xx

 

[beanie]

Thinking of you xx

 

[Wobbles]

Sorry to hear of your loss karens31

I am in the same boat as you right now - If you fancy a chat or a rant on MSN please feel free to PM or add me to MSN.

x

 

[*saulino*]

Hi

IM so sorry hun.
Hope you get your babes soon.
Katrina