BumbleTumble
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hello everyone
well, about this time of evening, i get panicky and paranoid about things i probably shouldnt. but idk
i just feel like i am an awful person. my pregnancy was an accident (a wonderful accident, but still). i dont know who the father is, and dont even know how to find out. ill be a single mum living off benefits, i dont even know where i will be living when i get to the later stages, could be anywhere.
i know about all the stigma that goes with women in the situation im in, some people have said horrible things to me, like im just having a baby to get more money and my own flat. i know that's not true, i would never even think of doing something so despicable, but who will believe me?
what if when my LO gets old enough, he/she will ask about their dad, will ask what happened to my arms. what do i say? really, what do i say.
i so wish things could be different, i wish i could work (again, sounds like another excuse, but i actually cant right now), i wish i could be in a stable relationship, i wish i had family that were close enough to support me with my decision to keep my baby, rather than constantly telling me i wont be able to cope and how hard and horrble it will be. well, if its so horrible, why did my mum have 5 children?
i just feel so awful. im over the moon to be pregnant, but im doubting myself so much, and i know people will judge me. they already do anyway.
sorry. i just needed to get this out somewhere. its way to early to be thinking about this. but i cant help it.
well, about this time of evening, i get panicky and paranoid about things i probably shouldnt. but idk
i just feel like i am an awful person. my pregnancy was an accident (a wonderful accident, but still). i dont know who the father is, and dont even know how to find out. ill be a single mum living off benefits, i dont even know where i will be living when i get to the later stages, could be anywhere.
i know about all the stigma that goes with women in the situation im in, some people have said horrible things to me, like im just having a baby to get more money and my own flat. i know that's not true, i would never even think of doing something so despicable, but who will believe me?
what if when my LO gets old enough, he/she will ask about their dad, will ask what happened to my arms. what do i say? really, what do i say.
i so wish things could be different, i wish i could work (again, sounds like another excuse, but i actually cant right now), i wish i could be in a stable relationship, i wish i had family that were close enough to support me with my decision to keep my baby, rather than constantly telling me i wont be able to cope and how hard and horrble it will be. well, if its so horrible, why did my mum have 5 children?
i just feel so awful. im over the moon to be pregnant, but im doubting myself so much, and i know people will judge me. they already do anyway.
sorry. i just needed to get this out somewhere. its way to early to be thinking about this. but i cant help it.
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