Jealous Friend...

[CoreysMummy]

Assuming you havent gone into labour, thus proving her wrong

Id tell her very tactfully that, as soon as there is any hint of a mucus plug, you will photograph it for her and ensure that she gets in A4 size by courier the same day, OR if shes really lucky you'll DHL her the loo roll its on!!

Silly Cow, id slap her for you. I didnt lose any plug... and I went into labour, the girl hasnt got a clue. She needs to grow up and put her fanny away, poor BF not even knowing what hes being led into.

I hate the way ppl assume that you are fed up and blah blah. Yeah, dnt get my wrong, I was ready to get rid of this baby from my belly, but... I got SICK TO DEATH of the constant, have you had it yet, and your not still pregnant are you. I used to just ignore ppl.

 

[NickyB]

I would post back.. "at least im not trying to get up the duff without my partner knowing!" Post that on Facebook and see how much longer she contacts you knowing everything..

This is definitely the best route to take, 100% guarantee you won't be bothered by her again!

 

[CorrieFan]

Wow Dannii she is seriously trying to wind you up isn't she! but HAAA she didn't manage it - you were so patient and polite - she would have been fuming having failed to get a rise out of you. WELL DONE!! It is pure jealousy. The poor thing can barely type she is so green-eyed.

 

[dannii87]

Thank you ladies!!!

My Mum went round to see her Mum yesterday to catch up and she was there. Mum said she just sat very quietly and then said (really upset) "oh Mum, I'm desperate for a baby..." & got quite tearful.

If she was honest with me and just said "I'm so broody Dannii and I'm really struggling to hear about you and your pregnancy" I would understand and and push her to talk to her OH and things, but if you're jealous/struggling to deal with it - But she shouldn't keep ringing me if she's feeling like that! Surely she'd feel better within herself if she just left me to get on with it?!

We've all had a touch of the green eyed monster, but you just avoid putting yourself in situations with the person!

Oh well... She'll have to get over it! x

 

[Steelgoddess]

Thank you ladies!!!

My Mum went round to see her Mum yesterday to catch up and she was there. Mum said she just sat very quietly and then said (really upset) "oh Mum, I'm desperate for a baby..." & got quite tearful.

If she was honest with me and just said "I'm so broody Dannii and I'm really struggling to hear about you and your pregnancy" I would understand and and push her to talk to her OH and things, but if you're jealous/struggling to deal with it - But she shouldn't keep ringing me if she's feeling like that! Surely she'd feel better within herself if she just left me to get on with it?!

We've all had a touch of the green eyed monster, but you just avoid putting yourself in situations with the person!

Oh well... She'll have to get over it! x

I immediatly thought you need to tell her to sort it out like the others said, but I deffo see where shes coming from, I think you already know she IS extremly jealous of you however you need to make it plain and simple that the put downs are too consistant and are starting to make you question the friendship at all, have a face to face with her...

Maybe meet up in a neutral place, go for pizza and TELL HER you have noticed her erratic questioning and would like her to be a part of your life but are finding it very hard when she keeps making irritating comments.

It also depends on how much you want to be friends with her, but you deffo need to confront her and NOT on msn. Also if you feel the coversation is heading "that way" don't get into it change the subject...

Also remember whilst yes its not nice she can't have kids its not fair for her to put you down because you can, ok a little sadness to start off with maybe but shes making you miserable!

 

[nori]

HIya Hun,

I think im going against the whole lot of you on this one (sorry people) I feel really sorry for her. I have a few freinds who are TTC and it must be the worse thing in the world. I totally agree that some of her comments are wrong but are they really THAT bad? It sounds like she still cares even if she is showing it in a slightly incensitive way.

Claire x

 

[Steelgoddess]

HIya Hun,

I think im going against the whole lot of you on this one (sorry people) I feel really sorry for her. I have a few freinds who are TTC and it must be the worse thing in the world. I totally agree that some of her comments are wrong but are they really THAT bad? It sounds like she still cares even if she is showing it in a slightly incensitive way.

Claire x

I agreed with you in a certain sense But this girl shouldn't make Danni feel bad ALL THE TIME thats not fair at all, to me that isn't the actions of a friend, Danni is right she needs to discuss her feelings.

 

[nori]

HIya Hun,

I think im going against the whole lot of you on this one (sorry people) I feel really sorry for her. I have a few freinds who are TTC and it must be the worse thing in the world. I totally agree that some of her comments are wrong but are they really THAT bad? It sounds like she still cares even if she is showing it in a slightly incensitive way.

Claire x

I agreed with you in a certain sense But this girl shouldn't make Danni feel bad ALL THE TIME thats not fair at all, to me that isn't the actions of a friend, Danni is right she needs to discuss her feelings.

Oh i know she shouldnt. Im just baseing my opinion on the email really and the fact that i know how my friend feels with the whole TTC thing and everyone around her falling preggers. She needs to talk to Danni about how she is feeling for sure but some people find that really hard. Theres no excuse for incencitive comments but I just think telling her to F@@@ off and such is a tad harsh on the girl..

Wait til the babies born Danni.. lol.. then you really will get all the advice from those books shes being reading! Just try and take it with a pinch of salt hun.