It has happened again...

[Huddsgirl]

im so sorry to hear this sharne, i am really sad for you, sounds like you are dealing with things well at the moe i think you already are a strong woman for having gone through this.
big hugs xx

 

[Trudyscrumptious76]

Sorry hun.

 

[Tiffy]

Sharne I am going to miss seeing you in first tri, so much. You brought so much to thta place.

 

[reallyoldmum]

I cannot imagine how sad you must be feeling - I just send you
and hope it gets better soon x x

 

[Emma58]

Sharne I am so, so sorry to hear about your loss
Please PM me if you need a shoulder i have some idea of how you are feeling.
Take care


Em x

 

[Ginnymarie]

Dear Sharne

you made me feel so much better this week, you are an inspiration, esp the bit about sending good vibes and getting out and getting a mag, i took your advice and have been so much more positive, no-one deserves a petal as much as you. Take care pet as they say in Newcastle and if you ever need to chat pm me or so many of the other girls who would gladly offer as much support as you need.
Will miss u
take care xxx

 

[skairdykat]

I'm so sorry hun

 

[Steelgoddess]

Im ok honestly girls, I woke up early this morning and felt a wee bit low and before waking i had a bit of a cry but im ok today.

Tbh I just want the sac thing removed so I can get on with my life its not a baby so I cant be sad really, its like having a positive preggy test only to find out its not if that makes sense?

Im relaxing today and im going to make a cake to take my mind off things, I hope I get the appointment for dandc soon as its harder handling the sickness knowing its for nothing..

Thanks again for the support.

 

[rhian85]

so sorry to hear this hun, but im glad ur staying positive hope u get ur appointment soon in the mean time take care sure everybody here is thinking of u
these are 4 u

 

[kazlin]

I am so sorry to here this hun. Huge hugs to you

 

[gemmap27]

Sharne - cant believe I am reading this!!! Such terrible news!!
I am thinking of you hun!!

 

[CB23]

so sorry Sharne

 

[clarey]

Sharne - I have only just found this thread, I am soooo sorry to hear all this.
Hope you are OK, you are so brave and positive, it will surely pay off in the end and you will have your lo.
Good luck with the docs, thinking of you and your OH

 

[ella]

I have only just read this - I am so sorry for your loss hun

 

[mandspice]

Oh Sharne, I am so sorry

I remember you from 1st Tri the first time round and was so happy for you when you fell pregnant again.

It will take you time to get over this but you sound like you have the best attitude possible - you've always given positivity and hope to the other women on here and we're all here for you now if you need to talk

 

[foxred]

i'm really sorry to hear your news I cant imagine how you must feel and well done for staying so positive. lots of

 

[Steelgoddess]

Was feeling really low this morning, OH and i had an argument yesterday evening and it triggered me to feel really low about the baby and stuff...

I started a new job today and there was emails about a lady going on maternity and a lady who works there is pregnant. Plus when i went out I saw another two preggys and a lady with a baby *sigh* luckily because everyone was so nice at my new job It took my mind off it soo much!!!

\i still don;t feel low, im worried that after I have the danc the hormones will cause me to feel low...

A lovely lady called from EPU and told me I have an appointment tom but it was too short notice so going to try and scedule it for friday if thats possible...

Does anyone know how long it will take for the hormones to start dropping??

 

[Squiglet]

Once you have the D&C your hormones drop really quickly... You'll feel a bit teary when you come round, it's kinda like going through the miscarriage again.. But after a couple of days, you should start feeling a bit better.. It's like being able to close the book on this part and move on to the next... the book is still there, you take it out, read it again, have a good cry, but it makes you feel like you can try again... and you can...Although, I would give yourself some time, just you time thats all... eat ice cream and chocolate, stay in bed, live in your pjs.. etc... Go out and party...

 

[Steelgoddess]

Feeling well low now, bathtimes are shitty now because it was when i use to think about having a baby...

huff.

Why me what did I do??

Thanks again for all the support im really trying but worried about after dand c i feel scared!

 

[Squiglet]

You didn't do anything,... Nothing at all .... you did what every other woman does... It wasn't your fault and you certainly couldn't have done anything in the world to stop it...

Allow yourself to have a good cry....Its your right... Don't let anyone tell you otherwise...Get angry with the world, kick and shout and scream... Stay locked away in your bedroom for a few days, or throw yourself into your work...anything to keep you thinking about it until it's time for you to deal with it..

I won't lie....The pain never goes away, but it gets easier to handle over time... This will be one of your most hardest hurdles but it will teach you things about yourself you never thought possible.

Don't give up....keep pushing in this life, because when you stop, the bu*gers have won... and you've got to keep fighting...