Just wanted to say hi to any other ladies that might be going through a miscarriage. I miscarried in June with identical twins - was a complete shocker after I'd just got used to the idea of being pregnant. The op to remove the twins was really not as bad as I'd imagined, I had no pain and physically felt better within a day or so. The only way I felt I could cope with this was to try to look forward and not dwell. we have been trying since but without thinking too much about dates etc. I have just found out I am pregnant again so I guess I'm just writing to say although its a sad and very difficult time to deal with, things do get easier. big hugs