how long b4 it gets easier !!!

[honey7733]

ok so my daughter is 7 months, i found out i was pg 2 days ago only to start bleeding the same day as i tested. i went to the drs and he said i was in the process of losing my bubba.

i have to go back to the drs next wednesday to have a scan to see if the baby has completely gone. if not he said something about a d and c or some sort of pill???????

to be honest i really was not listening to a word he said, so i am now confused about what will happen from now on. what if i have lost the baby completely??? what is the d and c???? or the pill????

although i was only 5 weeks pg, i feel so sad. i think its cos i keep thinking what might have been.

any advice will be much appreciated
thanks in advance

 

[LouisecH]

Hello

I'm so sorry for your loss, it's terrible at any stage.

A D&C is done under general anaesthic to remove any remaining tissue from your womb (sorry it sounds so cold). Some women chose to miscarry naturally. I didn't I had a D&C and was glad I made that choice. You have period pain cramps and bleeding afterwards but you're physically ok after a day or so.

I've no idea about the pill, maybe it does a similar thing.

Sorry again,
Louise

 

[lauramumof2]

Hi Honey,
I cant help with what a d&c os but I just wanted to let you know Im very sorry for what has happened to your baby. It doesnt matter how pg you were, its still a massive blow and I hope you find some sort of peace in your head about whats happened.

Take care
Laura.

 

[ree77]

Hi Honey,

I can't imagine what you are going through but I'm sure it is very difficult to go through what happened to you and the baby no matter what stage you are in. I just wanted to send hugz you way!! To let you know the pill does do the same thing but I think there is suppose to be less cramping then with D&C. Good Luck sweetie and let us know what happens.

xoxo Ree

(((((((((Hugz))))))))))

 

[honey7733]

thanks for your lovely messages

i will keep u all posted on what happens in the coming weeks

i am cut up but i will continue trying, i never wanted a only child, so lets keep out fingers crossed that it happens soon for me.

thanks again

 

[honey7733]

OMG Talk about night from hell

danielle started being violently sick at 4pm and continued til 8pm, i phoned nhs direct who called the emergency doctor out.

he was here 10 mins later, as she wasn`t keeping water down and had no wet nappies for 4 hrs

he gave her some anti-sickness drops and told me to give her a cup off tea. i then put her to bed (10pm)

i got into bed and fell asleep, at 1pm i woke to the violent sickness again, only this time it was me. finally stopped being sick and about 11am. i also couldn`t keep even a mouthful of water down.

we are both ok(ish) now, just very tired and weak

can it get any worse???????????????

 

[honey7733]

OMG Talk about night from hell

danielle started being violently sick at 4pm and continued til 8pm, i phoned nhs direct who called the emergency doctor out.

he was here 10 mins later, as she wasn`t keeping water down and had no wet nappies for 4 hrs

he gave her some anti-sickness drops and told me to give her a cup off tea. i then put her to bed (10pm)

i got into bed and fell asleep, at 1pm i woke to the violent sickness again, only this time it was me. finally stopped being sick and about 11am. i also couldn`t keep even a mouthful of water down.

we are both ok(ish) now, just very tired and weak

can it get any worse???????????????

 

[lauramumof2]

Im glad the sickness passed, we had that 2 weeks ago and it was horrendous. Thats good they sent a doc out though as its quite difficult to get them to take things seriously.

Take care
Laura.

 

[honey7733]

i have to go for a scan today to see if i have definately miscarried.

but it doesn`t look hopeful

wish me luck

 

[amy]

hi hope your ok how did scan go? xxxxxxxxxxx my heart goes out to you, take care.