thumbelina29
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Its been almost 5 months since I miscarried but I don't feel its much easier. There was 3 weeks between my twin sister & I; she's finishing work this Friday for her maternity leave. I'm still finding it very hard as I have a constant reminder of what I should've had.
I'm also still trying to deal with my partner walking out 2 weeks after the miscarriage & finding out he'd been cheating on me. If I had only had one issue to deal with I might've been on the road to recovery but the other things have also been a lot to take in.
I'm also underperforming slightly at work because I find my mind is easily distracted. My boss is giving me quite a hard time; I think she thinks I should be over it by now & back to my normal self. I'm going into work almost waiting in her telling me off & the more she does it the more mistakes I'm making because I'm concentrating so hard on not making a mistake. I confided in a member of HR team on Friday & I've been offered more counselling but I also need to speak to my boss which I'm dreading in case she shouts at ke again.
Is it normal for me to still feel this way after so long?
I'm also still trying to deal with my partner walking out 2 weeks after the miscarriage & finding out he'd been cheating on me. If I had only had one issue to deal with I might've been on the road to recovery but the other things have also been a lot to take in.
I'm also underperforming slightly at work because I find my mind is easily distracted. My boss is giving me quite a hard time; I think she thinks I should be over it by now & back to my normal self. I'm going into work almost waiting in her telling me off & the more she does it the more mistakes I'm making because I'm concentrating so hard on not making a mistake. I confided in a member of HR team on Friday & I've been offered more counselling but I also need to speak to my boss which I'm dreading in case she shouts at ke again.
Is it normal for me to still feel this way after so long?