Hi I'm new here so I'm not quite sure how it all works :/ but anyway here I go...
I'm 19/ 20 next month and I have been with my current partner who is 22 for 2 years. I know we are both quite young but I have grown up as an only child and have always wanted a large family of my own, I don't want to leave it too late. My mum had me at 21 and I believe that we have a very special bond. Anyway I have wanted to conceive for about a year now and to make it worse two of my close friends have just had babies and my mum is now pregnant . I just want to emphasise that I do not want to have a child to follow fashion like I said I have wanted a baby for just over a year now.
Me and my OH have not used any contraception since I came off BCP last July. I do not chart my ovulation as my cycle varies between 28-33 days. Anyway, a few months ago I could have bet a million pounds that I was pregnant I literally had every single symptom under the sun and was 12 days late when I woke up to AF I cried for hours!
Anyway... this month I'm feeling slightly optomistic although me and OH only had unprotected sex twice. The first day of my last period was 30th August and we did the deed on the 12th and 16th I think not 100% sure my brain is all mushy right now lol.
For the past few days I have been experiencing:
-Bad leg cramps
-Frequent urination
-Heartburn (ouch!)
-Cramps(I've had these for about 2 weeks now at one point I thought AF was coming really early)
- Noticed veins are really prominent on boobs and chest area
-Poking/stabbing pain mostly on left side
-Yesterday random fluttering in tummy
-Loads of gas!
AF is due in 3 days I really don't want to get my hopes up and be dissapointed again
Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Sorry about the long post!
x
I'm 19/ 20 next month and I have been with my current partner who is 22 for 2 years. I know we are both quite young but I have grown up as an only child and have always wanted a large family of my own, I don't want to leave it too late. My mum had me at 21 and I believe that we have a very special bond. Anyway I have wanted to conceive for about a year now and to make it worse two of my close friends have just had babies and my mum is now pregnant . I just want to emphasise that I do not want to have a child to follow fashion like I said I have wanted a baby for just over a year now.
Me and my OH have not used any contraception since I came off BCP last July. I do not chart my ovulation as my cycle varies between 28-33 days. Anyway, a few months ago I could have bet a million pounds that I was pregnant I literally had every single symptom under the sun and was 12 days late when I woke up to AF I cried for hours!
Anyway... this month I'm feeling slightly optomistic although me and OH only had unprotected sex twice. The first day of my last period was 30th August and we did the deed on the 12th and 16th I think not 100% sure my brain is all mushy right now lol.
For the past few days I have been experiencing:
-Bad leg cramps
-Frequent urination
-Heartburn (ouch!)
-Cramps(I've had these for about 2 weeks now at one point I thought AF was coming really early)
- Noticed veins are really prominent on boobs and chest area
-Poking/stabbing pain mostly on left side
-Yesterday random fluttering in tummy
-Loads of gas!
AF is due in 3 days I really don't want to get my hopes up and be dissapointed again
Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Sorry about the long post!
x