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[cassi]

Cassi i hope i didnt do wrong by putting down what i said its not aimed at anyone.................

no sweetheart of course not

 

[Urchin]

Im sorry Urchin but cassi isnt the only person Freyas comments have upset this week!

What has that got to do with anything?

 

[cassi]

and im looking for a post where freya says they were not aimed at me, i cant see it? strange that.....

 

[Alfiesmummy]

Im sorry Urchin but cassi isnt the only person Freyas comments have upset this week!

What has that got to do with anything?

becaus eit seems that it doesnt matter who shes offending but anyone say a thing to her and its all guns blazing.

 

[Urchin]

Im sorry Urchin but cassi isnt the only person Freyas comments have upset this week!

What has that got to do with anything?

becaus eit seems that it doesnt matter who shes offending but anyone say a thing to her and its all guns blazing.

You call me asking Cassi to calm down "All guns blazing"?

What if I were to tell you that freya is not the only person Cassi has upset recently, and that this is the first time I have voiced my concerns to her?
Has that got anything to do with it?

 

[Alfiesmummy]

yeah i think guns blazing as its all being aimed at cassi but youve failed to mention about the fact she was provoked in the first place!

 

[cassi]

Im sorry Urchin but cassi isnt the only person Freyas comments have upset this week!

What has that got to do with anything?

becaus eit seems that it doesnt matter who shes offending but anyone say a thing to her and its all guns blazing.

You call me asking Cassi to calm down "All guns blazing"?

What if I were to tell you that freya is not the only person Cassi has upset recently, and that this is the first time I have voiced my concerns to her?
Has that got anything to do with it?

what is your problem with me? You are really acting as a moderator right now arnt you....im sorry if I have upset anyone in the past but its not like you havnt is it? Its not like many of us have never upset anyone in the past..

But why bring me into that post? Thankyou very much urchin for trying your best to humiliate me in front of the whole forum you have done a great job well done....i cant be bothered any more...

 

[glitzyglamgirl]

I think its not only a very emotive topic, but its also very easy to read things wrong on a forum without the tools of body language, eye contact, tone of voice.

I for one cant work out for sure what was aimed at who so its probably best to just agree to disagree??

Back to topic though, I watched a bit of E true hollywood stories lastnight about anna - did anyone else watch this? It portrays her a very tragic, sensitive person, but skims over the drugs and marrying for money issues!

 

[chezzabell]

yeah i think guns blazing as its all being aimed at cassi but youve failed to mention about the fact she was provoked in the first place!

 

[Urchin]

yeah i think guns blazing as its all being aimed at cassi but youve failed to mention about the fact she was provoked in the first place!

I mentioned it here

Saying someone "looks uncaring" does NOT warrant such a response. It doesn't even mean they ARE uncaring...just that they "look uncaring" to some people.

If she was provoked I still think her response was way over the top.

 

[chezzabell]

Personally i have to say for a mod to make that coment to someone on a public forum is bang out of order, it doesnt matter who is right or wrong i dont think a mod should humiliate someone like that

 

[cassi]

yeah i think guns blazing as its all being aimed at cassi but youve failed to mention about the fact she was provoked in the first place!

I mentioned it here

Saying someone "looks uncaring" does NOT warrant such a response. It doesn't even mean they ARE uncaring...just that they "look uncaring" to some people.

If she was provoked I still think her response was way over the top.

well i dont think so....you need to look at what you have said to me urchin...im really upset so congratulations, i really thought you were a lovely person, you have proved me wrong. Say what you want I dont care any more...re read the posts and think long and hard about them.

 

[Urchin]

I see no one commenting on the fact that alfiesmummy brought freya upsetting people into it.

Cassi...people can make their own minds up about the way you have been posting recently.

 

[cassi]

I see no one commenting on the fact that alfiesmummy brought freya upsetting people into it.

Cassi...people can make their own minds up about the way you have been posting recently.

so you have to say things about me? hmm....yes and im sure people make their own minds up about you...but do i add to it and humiliate you? no i dont im above that. Recently i have been replying to posts as everyone does...i cant see the problem, nor has anyone pm'd me to state a problem...but beileve what you may...you just get your last say and lock the thread....enjoy it urchin...really, make it a good one....go on give me a nice punch in the face to finish up with.

so much for the way i have been posting recent everyone feel free to look at my posts on my profile.....pre this topic...i really cant see any horrible ones for a long long time

yes there was the thing with momnat a while ago of which i was horrible n feel bad about but me n momnat were pm'ing eachother the other day asking how eachother were....

 

[glitzyglamgirl]

ive never had a problem with any of cassi's post, but if I did I would pm her and let her know as im sure everyone else would (including mods?), instead of being so publically brutal. Just my opinion.

 

[cassi]

ive never had a problem with any of cassi's post, but if I did I would pm her and let her know as im sure everyone else would (including mods?), instead of being so publically brutal. Just my opinion.

Thnakyou sweetheart

 

[Urchin]

I did pm cassi.

Cassi...I have pmed you again, but I'm putting it here too.

Most people on the forum will have upset someone at some point.... like you pointed out: me included... that's just the way it is, it's just what happens on a forum. My point was this had nothing to do with the thread.

Cassi...I would have locked this thread ages ago if you didn't keep saying it was going to get locked, I could have seen that as you trying to humiliate ME if I did lock it...so I let it carry on.

 

[cassi]

I did pm cassi.

Cassi...I have pmed you but I'm putting it here too.

Most people on the forum will have upset someone at some point.... like you pointed out: me included... that's just the way it is, it's just what happens on a forum. My point was this had nothing to do with the thread.

Cassi...I would have locked this thread ages ago if you didn't keep saying it was going to get locked, I could have seen that as you trying to humiliate ME if I did lock it...so I let it carry on.

Keep saying? I think not....Trying to humiliate you? Definatly not. Im leaving this now...I beileve you have been unfair to me, and clearly im not the only one that thinks this way. Im not acting any more on the subject. I beileve I have been humiliated and upset by someone who is supposed to be a forum moderator. What a shame that my opinions on the welfare of a baby have turned so sour...what a shame.

 

[Melly+2]

cassi......................

 

[Dee1985]

urchin hun

this place is becoming a fulltime job for you, its not fair


this is a public forum and mainly aimed at ttc pregnancy and babies. so why should all the moderating time be taken up in the offtopic

now every one is getting angry with the mod............. IF IT WASNT FOR THE MOD THERE WOULD BE NO FORUM. most forums have a mod each section we have 1 mod looking after the entire forum