Is hubby out of order?

[LouiseB]

I don't know if i'm just being hormonal but i really feel like hiding in a cave for the rest of my life and i don't know if i'm being stupid or not

While i was on holiday i fell arse over tit into Loch Ness and as it happened hubby was taking photos of me and he got this great pic of my arse sticking up out of the water.

At the time i laughed, we laughed. It was pretty bloody funny and it tickles me to look at the photo.

I sent it to my brother and it was funny.

I sent it to a friend and it was funny.

Hubby posts it on his Facebook without even mentioning it to me and all his mates that i haven't even met and his sister who is a cow and his cousin have all commented about how hilarious and unfortunate etc it is and it doesn't feel funny anymore.

I feel more like i'm being laughed at than with and i just feel like crying.

Hubby says he'll remove it but the damage has been done. I feel humiliated

He doesn't seem to understand the difference between me looking like an idiot in front of my nearest and dearest and looking like an idiot in front of people i either don't know or feel uncomfortable around.

Am i just being stupid or is he out of order?

 

[Piglet10]

tbh he prob didnt realise how NOT funny it was, prob cos of ur previous reaction, i wud delete it chick and ull be yesterdays news tomorrow dont worry bout it xx

 

[loobilu]

aww i understand where your coming from hun. Believe me i wouldnt want my (horrid) sis in law laughing at my pics either! but i really dont think he has meant any harm, but i would feel the same. I would be inclined to leave pic up for a while so as not to let said sis in law and others even know that you were bothered. Play it cool if you can. i know much easier said than done hun.Just wouldnt give em the satisfaction xx

 

[Kezzamunster]

I would be absolutely fuming if I'm totally honest cos YOU showing your nearest & dearest is totally different to him just adding to facebook for the whole world & it's mum to see

It's not hormonal at all my hun

xxx

 

[FebMum2Be]

He probably didn't understand how you would feel about it, but I so know what you mean about it being funny with your closest friends and family xx

 

[Drummers_wife]

i agree with the girls he didnt mean no harm babe x
and if you can leave it there to not show it upset you (my sister in law is a cow too) but if it does upset u knowing its still there then remove it x

 

[cosmicgirl]

Men have zero common sense!
My oh went to his sisters BBQ last summer, I was poorly so stayed at home. I sent him a fab booby pic to remind him of his lovely oh at home alone. He proceeded to show his auntie and brother in law my pic!!! I then received numerous fb comments about my "nice pic" - could of throttled him!! x

 

[Nurse 26]

Men just dont think. fact.

I would be mad too, nothing worse than pics of you looking daft go on facebook and people you really dislike commenting on them, thing is if you ask him to take it down now then people will think it bothers you, iykwim?

I wouldnt be too upset with hubby, most men would have done the same. xx

 

[Kezzamunster]

Men have zero common sense!
My oh went to his sisters BBQ last summer, I was poorly so stayed at home. I sent him a fab booby pic to remind him of his lovely oh at home alone. He proceeded to show his auntie and brother in law my pic!!! I then received numerous fb comments about my "nice pic" - could of throttled him!! x

 

[Binzy]

Men haven't got a clue about 'feelings' most of the time. Take it down but don't mention it to anyone, they'll find something else to laugh about soon enough. I can see why you're hurt though.

 

[Sleepy sue]

Men just don't get it!!
Just remember revenge is sweet, and you tube is awesome and has quite an audience

 

[faithangle]

That was awful hun been def have no common sense at time. Like the girls have said try leave it up a while so no one knows it bothered you, not easy I know but you don't want to give that sis inlaw anymore to get snug about. xxx