raisingingrid
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My boyfriend and I planned our first pregnancy, and got pregnant right away after getting off birth control. We had normal-frequent sex almost every day, if not, every other day. After we found out I was pregnant, things were still normal...but I felt so sick and didn't have energy or motivation to even have sex or do anything else of that nature. I entered the second trimester 6 weeks ago and my sex drive has increased 1,000%!!!!!! For some reason, my boyfriend just isn't into having sex as much as we used to and he even rejects me when I tell him I want to have sex. It hurts my feelings SO bad and he says it's because there's a baby in my stomach and it just doesn't feel right. I am so self-conscious about my body transforming into a home for the growing baby....gaining a little weight, having a baby bump, ect, and that is why my feelings are crushed when he says he just "isn't in the mood and doesn't want to have sex" My second concern: he works super hard and when the weather is bad or snowing, they can't work, so he stays home. He LOVES porn and I know he watches it and gets off while doing it. How do I know? I turn to full investigator mode. Why does he watch porn and pleasure himself when he can just have sex with me after I get home from work...he knows I ALWAYS want it. Is it normal for guys to watch porn and not just have sex with their pregnant girlfriend? Should I feel heart-broken and hurt because he wont have sex with me because he's "exhausted and not in the mood?" I need to fill my needs too, and I don't watch porn. I just want him. Any advice?