In tears...

[Lulabell]

Feeling so miserable it's untrue! I feel like I've lost all my friends since being pregnant. Feel like m y life has been on hold and I can't be the person I was before. Don't get me wrong I'm so happy I'm pregnant and got LO on the way! I know my life will change and I'll make new friends through LO. But right now I feel very alone. Hubby can still do all the things he wants. I'm just sat here crying and feeling very sorry myself. Sorry for the pointless thread.

 

[kerry5a]

Oh no don't cry, it's hard missing out while you're pregnant but true friends will be with you after the birth x I know it's hard as I had my first at 17 and felt no one wanted to know me anymore but you'll be back to normal soon hunnie x soon be your OH feeling left out when everyone is paying you and baby all the attention x

 

[Rachaellius]

Aww don't be upset! I feel exactly the same though, so lonely just lately. My friends don't wanna know because all they seem to be into is clubbing, haven't spoke to them in probably a month or so now, so sick of being let down by them. My OH has also had his shifts changed at work and he now works from 1pm til 9pm everyday, but has to set out about 12 and isnt back til about 10. So I'm literally on my own all day everyday and it really sucks, all my family work full time too.
I think I would have gone crazy if it wasn't for PF!
Your not on your own, I'm also looking forward to when bubs is here so I can go to different classes and hopefully meet new people in the same boat as me xx

 

[Mrs. KM]

Aw hugs Lulabell! Thank God for this foruma, without it I would feel so lonely! I hope you feel better! Xx

 

[Olive]

Just wanted to send you a hug hun Sorry you're feeling down. We're all here for you x

 

[Lulabell]

Thank you everyone. I'm glad I'm not alone in feeling like this. Although I wish none of us felt like this!xx

 

[kerry5a]

Just another pregnancy symptom to go with heart burn, constipation, bad back, wind, tiredness.... Oh the joys x

 

[Rachaellius]

At least we have each other to chat to and moan to ay this place is a godsend xx

 

[lewisca]

Oh don't cry Hun we all feel
Like this at times !! And thank god for pf !! Would have gone insane without it !! Xxx


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[Berryripe]

i know what u mean lula.... i feel the same way, used to club and go out every weekend but now, i seriously dont even feel up to those things anymore and my friends dont understand, sometimes i think its not fair that OH can still go out and do whatever he wants but surprisingly, he's stayed home with me all through.... i try to give him the occasional stay out late pass but his curfew is 11 pm and its worked for both of us..... still doesnt stop me from feeling so down and bitchy when he's out though. thankfully i'm almost done with pregnancy so it wont be long now.... wooo hoo.... i cant wait to wear all those cute and sexy clothes again... lol. sigh........

 

[Lulabell]

At least we have each other to chat to and moan to ay this place is a godsend xx

Very true!xx

 

[Hunnie]

I felt like this the other day and it really does get me down but then I thought of it all as well if the so calle friends are all so quick to desert me in my months of need then it was worth loosing them for flesh and blood who can't desert me so quick (maybe not till they are a lot older anyway lol!).

So looking forward to having my own little mini me

 

[Jayceesmumma]

I know how u feel too babe it does get us down just don't let it get on top of you.. You'll be able to go out and enjoy yourself soon enough

 

[Lilelephant]

My friends are the same hence this Saturday was supposed to be my baby shower but everyone pulled out so not having one now I don't even get invited out by my Sis now! The only friend that bothers is my friend that has 2 kids.

just concentrate on that beautiful baby growing in ur belly x

 

[Lulabell]

Thank you everyone. I've woken up in a better frame of mind today. I know that I shouldn't let it get to me. This baby means everything to me and it will all be so worth it! And thos so called friends that come crawling back for a cuddle of baby? They can sod off until I'm ready!xx

 

[Lilelephant]

Precisely hun!

 

[Jayceesmumma]

Glad ur feeling better about it all now!xx

 

[pinkyprincess]

I felt like this in tri 2. It got to the stage where if my OH went out with his mates I'd be in tears all night! I've now realised I've got a new life coming up I'm looking forward too, and I have a tight group of friends (not as big as I thought before my bfp) who I may not see or talk to everyday but they are there if I need them!

 

[sarah0202]

aww bless ya hun these damn hormones make everything seem worse, but true friends will be there for you even if you don't see them as much plus you will prob end up making new friends once baby is here and you go to any groups then once you have to do school runs you will meet new people and make new friends xxx

 

[star fish]

Ok, lets be honest here - pregnant women are boring! They can't drink or smoke or anything, they get knackered and have to go home to bed with a hot water bottle before 10 pm! Friends are terrified we will become 'baby bores' and to be fair its hard not to be. On top of that we feel tearful and paranoid.

Of course they dont want to hang out with us as much. But we have to find the excitement in the new life we are creating instead. If I'm low I read more books and magazines about pregnancy and get excited and happy that I'm doing this, or I go and buy something small for the nursery (and to think I used to spend all my spare money on designer underwear and fine wines, lol).

My main concern would be are you feeling extra low and abandoned? You have to keep a really close eye on your moods because it sounds to me like you might actually be a bit depressed? Pregnant women are so very prone to getting depression and I would hate to think that you have depression and everyone is just saying you are hormonal. If you really feel alone with all this then please please chat to your doctor. xxxx