Just wanted somewhere to rant really, I'm a mum of 3 boys my eldest I carried full term my youngest two were born at 27 & 30 weeks. I still want another child, I'm one of four my partner is one of four I just feel I want four. I brought it up with my partner he said no way 3 is enough for anyone, it became an argument why should I compromise and say ok 3 it is when he won't even give it some thought? I said well we both want different things so when this time comes ( my boys are all under 3) we are going to have to come type of agreement or split. I need the chance to have a daughter another son would be just as amazing. He brought our argument up at his parents for them to sit there for an hour and a half telling me my boys have no life because the ages are too close together my second son is over looked and what's the point of carrying another child "you can't carry a child to nine months anyway". His mother told me I was to ruin my childrens lives further if me and dad were to split. Can anyone else see where I am coming from? I come from a split marriage I was 11 when they split I don't feel my life was ruined in anyway. Just because his parents argue all the time and are quite happy to admit they've never told one another they love them. I feel like a complete looser not standing up for myself and my kids 😞