I'm not pregnant :(

[Cori]

I got my period at about 7 this morning. I woke up at about 6 and felt really nauseous. Then when I got up at 7, I'd just started to come on. And this will sound stupid, but I did a test anyway, lol. Anyway, I'm not as gutted as I thought I would be. Not as bad as last time, but that was my first time, so I guess it gets easier each time? I just keep telling myself that I've only been trying 2 months and that's nothing compared to some of you guys.

Anyway, it's not long till I can start trying again, going by this cycle (24 days). I should ovulate around next Friday, so I can start trying again from next Tuesday. If I have EWCM for 3 days before I ovulate again like last time, do you think I should try on all 3 days, or the 1st and 3rd day I have it? Last time, I tried the 2nd and 3rd day I had it and then I ovulated the day after.

 

[ejjie]

So sorry Cori,

It doesn't get any easier the longer you try - it's just a big fat emotional roller coaster!!! The feeling you get when AF comes is horrible so have some of these

Yay to your short cycles though, only a few days until OV! (I have to wait 26+ days - boo!)

Chin up hon xxx

 

[Cori]

Thank you Ellie. I know, my heart sank when I saw that I'd come on, but then I was ok and started thinking about trying next time.

Last time I had a break off the pill, I hated the fact my cycles were as short as 23 days, but now I'm grateful.

I'm gonna give that baby psychic a go. How long do you have to wait for a prediction if you pay?

 

[ejjie]

I can't remember exactly but I think around a week, maybe sooner...x

 

[Cori]

Yeah, I've just been looking on the site. I think it says 3 days. I don't know whether to do it or not, cos if she says I won't conceive till next year, I'm gonna be gutted, lol.

 

[Anna23]

awwww so sorry she came

 

[ShineyHappyPeople]

Sorry Cori

 

[Cori]

Thanks guys.

 

[A&J]

Sorry the witch got you.

 

[Cori]

Thanks A&J.

 

[rusks]

sorry hun can i just suggest you try and relax a bit next month you sound very anxious about the whole ttc thing

 

[Lorna]

sorry the witch arrived.

 

[Snuggle]

I'm really sorry Cori, I can totally sympathise as I really thought it was my month this month too Lets make a pact to try relax about it all this month and not test til day AF is due, what do you think?

 

[andreaaa]

Sorry Cori

 

[Cori]

sorry hun can i just suggest you try and relax a bit next month you sound very anxious about the whole ttc thing

LOL, you don't say. I think I am rather uptight about it all. But it's just that I feel like I'm running out of time cos of my age. For all I know, it might take years for me to get pregnant and if I take after my mum, I'll be going through the menopause at 40 Plus I really want a child right now, lol. And then I feel bad cos I've drank a cup of tea or lifted something too heavy. You're right, I do need to relax!

 

[Cori]

sorry the witch arrived.

Thanks Lorna

 

[Cori]

I'm really sorry Cori, I can totally sympathise as I really thought it was my month this month too Lets make a pact to try relax about it all this month and not test til day AF is due, what do you think?

It's a deal! So when do you think you will be ovulating next?

 

[Cori]

Sorry Cori

Thanks Andrea

 

[Jaidy]

sorry hun can i just suggest you try and relax a bit next month you sound very anxious about the whole ttc thing

LOL, you don't say. I think I am rather uptight about it all. But it's just that I feel like I'm running out of time cos of my age. For all I know, it might take years for me to get pregnant and if I take after my mum, I'll be going through the menopause at 40 Plus I really want a child right now, lol. And then I feel bad cos I've drank a cup of tea or lifted something too heavy. You're right, I do need to relax!

Yeah hunny, it does sounds like you are stressing waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too much!

I know its so so hard to say 'relax' and it is hard to relax when you want something so much, but just try and sit back and just let nature do its bit! Just keep yourself busy, try and focus on something else other than ttc (I know that is prob impossible but worth a shot) and I can guarantee things will get moving...if I start stressing I always try to tell myself to take 5 and remember Rome wasnt built in a day as they say!

Best of luck for next month hun we are all here for you

 

[Cori]

Aww, thank you Jaidy. I'm so glad I joined this forum, you're all so lovely!

Yeah, you're right. I will try to forget about it next time. I guess wishing it's gonna happen won't make it happen any quicker. It will happen it happens and if it doesn't it doesn't.