im in the biggest trouble ever.....

[januarymommy]

well here i go, me and my boyfriend split up on may 1st.....i had sexual intercourse with another man on may 2nd......the first day my period started was on april 8...me and my boyfriend had sex in april more than once....they were all unprotected.....however the other guy did use a condom thou....my next period was supposed to start on may 6th......but did'nt start....i took a home pregnancy test on may 10th and 18th and both came back positive.....well according to an early internal songram on june 5th...i was in my 9th week of pregnancy.....all my dates are correct and the baby definately pointing to my boyfriends baby....i told him about what happened while we split and he was 100% pissed....i told him the baby is his but he does'nt want to hear it.....im due january 11th ..he said dont call him until january after i had the baby....he buys stuff for the baby....but he said if the baby is'nt his im in trouble...im so scared,confused and depressed...i even ask my doctor and she said i conceived sometime in april...even with all that i still cant help the way i feel.....im just an emotional wreck...so what do u guys think......thanks 4 reading :

 

[Londoner Claire]

Oh I'm so sorry, that must be so hard to deal with. Do you have other support from friends and family?

 

[Dee1985]

sorry you are feeling this way. you dont need him . you have us now. we will be here for you.

the only thing u can do is get a dna once baby is born and if baby is his. he owes you big big big time x

 

[budge]

i can't see how the baby can be the other fellas coz you used a condom.

 

[nathanmum]

yeah i agree if you used a condom how could it be the other guys? i know its easy to say but you cant really do anything until the baby is born if thats your chaps attitude. try and enjoy your pregnancy for you and your baby and worry about him and dna and all that when it comes to it congratulations on your pregnancy by the way

 

[Ebony_Mommy]

sometimes the condom split/leak without u knowing..

or he might not believe that u did use a condom with this other guy

either way.. u have to understands why hes pissed...

but anyhow.. u can have a dna test when baby is here i suppose

xxx

 

[januarymommy]

well lastnight he said that it does'nt matter if it's his or not,he will help me out.....but he want it to be his....i was

 

[Londoner Claire]

I'd leave him to come to you, don't chase or contact him otherwise he'll feel hassled. Men can't handle the pressure. Hopefully things will work out and if he loves you enough it won't matter.

 

[Urchin]

well lastnight he said that it does'nt matter if it's his or not,he will help me out.....but he want it to be his....i was

That's great news, it was probably just the shock for him at first.

Fingers crossed she pops out and looks just like him