omg help me plz

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  1. help me

    help me New Member

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    hi im 14 and i resently had sex with my boyfriend buh he dosnt no if the comdom split im reli paraoid because i dont want to be pregnant and ive been getting back ache i slept with him and came on about 2 -3 days after sleeping with him and have jus came off(7th) does that mean im not pregnant im realy confused n scared help me please!!!!!

    w/b xxxx
     
  2. mary70

    mary70 Well-Known Member

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    you should be fine hun but without preaching you are very young to be having sex, maybe if you intend having it again you should try speeking to your doctor about something a bit better than the condom but good on you for being sensible
     
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    Minxy Well-Known Member

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    I agree if you've had a period you should be fine. See a doctor confidentially for a test to confirm if you're not sure.
     
  4. help me

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    thank you but im reli paranoid and i no i am it was a bit of a mistake lol.

    can i go to the octors on my own for the pill and ive been told its not very good by my friend who has been on the pill befor she is 16.

    and do you think i shuld take a test just incase or wil i deffinately not be pregnant im realy scared my dad would kill me lol.

    w/b xxxx
     
  5. mary70

    mary70 Well-Known Member

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    i am sure you can go on your own hun, and the pill is the best option, is there anyone in your family that could go with you or you could talk too or maybe someone at school
     
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    well my school is for kicked out kids i no its bad but they arnt very nice there and i get bullied and theres this 1 gal im m8's with but i dont think i can trust her because she has told a couple of my secret befor. and i think i could go with my oldest sister because she was the one i told about me loosing my virginity and that was to this boy im with and is the only time ive splept with him so i could go with her but im rely serious with this boy i realy like him and he's proved he likes me but dont want to get pregnant lol i dont no if any of that made sense but i was basicaly saying the onli person i can trust is my big sister lol but do you think i should take a pregnancy test?
     
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    mary70 Well-Known Member

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    i dont think i test is neccesary, i think your big sister is a brill person to go with
     
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    thnks so much you have been a great help im soo greatfull and hope to speak soon buh it wont be me seyin im pregnant i hope lolmayb a casual chat lol much love xxxx
     
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    lauramumof2 Well-Known Member

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    awwww, what a wee sweetie :hug: :hug:
     
  10. mummykay

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    was it a proper period or implantation bleedin? :think:
    i think u should go to the docs and find out :)
     
  11. trixipaws

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    yeah it couldve been implantation bleeding, better take a test to make sure. good luck sweety :hug:
     
  12. R.lily

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    You seem really scared but if i was you just to be 100% sure
    i would take a test but hopefully tou should be fine ;)
    Good luck Hunnii x x
     
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    you can always buy a test from boot's or something just to make sure :)
     
  14. Minxy

    Minxy Well-Known Member

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    Since this post was in JANUARY she'd probably know by now :)
    :wink:
     

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