OMG had a very similar thing yesterday. my OH emptied the dishwasher 'for me' (cos theyre all my plates???) but he piled them up on the side, right on top of the cupboard they go in. WTF?! Then he put my wooden salad servers I got from africa in the dishwasher and all the varnish is gone off them I think Ill just do it all myself in the future!