well tonight is her first night in her own room, put the cot in there this morning, and iv been letting her play in there so she egts used tro the room as we never used it before for anything but storage and was worried she would be scared of the room, well i put her in the cot to drink her milk as usual and she drained the lot and wouldnt go to sleep lol anyways i went in our room next door to her and waited there she had a cd on and the door open withthe bathroom light on in the end i came doenstairs and she has fallen asleep hugging her teddy bear. ill let you know how it goes, but fingers crossed this could be the first night for me and DH in our own room alone in over 15 months