caseysmummy11
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It's been 8 months since my baby was born sleeping and it's getting harder not easier. I'm in the process of counselling but it's not helping yet. I'm am anxious mess who is struggling to keep it together, I'm so far from the old me, I've forgotten who she was. My maternity leave is now over, I managed three days back at work and now I can't bear the thought of going and am getting panick attacks.i feel withdrawn from the world at times and can't concentrate on anything but my own thoughts, I'm snappy and so tired. I'm scared to wean my daughter with finger foods incase she chokes, I cry when my son gets upset, I cry when my daughter looks sad, I cry when I'm tired and broke down completely on my second day back at work. My hearts aches when I see a set of twins and I see them God damn everywhere now! I wake up every morning with dread that something bad is going to happen to us. I long to go back to being carefree, I want to be able to enjoy my children and not constantly worry that their lives are in danger, I dot want to be angry anymore, I want to be able to go back to work and be normal again but I'm scared that's never going to happen, I think I'm always going to be broken, I can't be fixed as there's a huge part missing that will never be able to be put back. I want the life I thought I was going to have with all 3 of my babies together. Watching my twin girls play together and love each other, I don't want to have to explain to my 4 year old that his baby zara can't come down from the sky to be with us again and again and watch his face crumple with sadness, I don't want to have to explain to lily that she can't meet her twin sister who was a part of her. I would give anything to go back and change it for our family.
Just needed to get it off my chest, it weighs heavily in my head and just writing it down helps a little xxx
Just needed to get it off my chest, it weighs heavily in my head and just writing it down helps a little xxx