I really want this to be my month

[charlene09]

TTC is stessing me out now , I am due on 21st and had no sore boobs as usual had cramps and stiches and allsorts though.

I just feel like giving up , ive had discharge aswell but not sticky like before AF

 

[flopsybunny]

It can be really disheartening can't it? How long have you being TTC?

As they say though, you're still in until the dreaded arrives. Keeping my fingers crossed for you hun!!

xx

 

[charlene09]

5 months now

 

[flopsybunny]

Keep your fingers crossed and keep trying! It will happen when you least expect it!!

xx

 

[Lilelephant]

I am totally with you, and it is the most frustrating thing I've ever been through. I really hope you hget your bfp soon.

 

[charlene09]

Thankyou.

I Can't cope with TTC anymore , It's too frustrating.

I sit at night and think is it ever going to happen to me? , can i get pregnant? , Is there something wrong with me ?

 

[Annie050408]

No hon, there is probably nothing wrong with you- fingers crossed this is your month. xx

How many months have you been trying with ov sticks and as much as poss round time of ov and with all the info you currently have on TTC?

The reason I ask is because I know a girl who was TTC for 8 months but basically they were just not using protection- she didn't really look into it much until she thought they had a problem. Then she read up on everything, used ov sticks, cut our caffeine and bd all throughout ov time and they got preg first month trying in that way.

 

[Princess81]

Chin up you! You'll get there xx

 

[JJ Mum]

Fingers crossed for you , stick with the key dates in the ovulation tickers for your cycle, stick your bum in the air for an hour after!

keep chirpy, it will happen

 

[lyndseyd]

Like most ppl on here, I know exactly how u feel.

My OH and I have been trying since September and it just feels like its been forever but I know deep down we will get there in the end and so will yous so just try and stay positive

 

[charlene09]

Thankyou and only 1 month with ov sticks but i know my cycle like the back of my hand and i know when i ovulate

 

[ToffeePop]

There's a really good book called "Taking Charge of Your Fertility" that highlights things to look for when TTC. It's ace! Could also be a help ?

 

[charlene09]

Might have to look into that sometime

 

[ema-lou24]

i know exactly how u feel. this is gonna be our last month TTC, after than im binnu=ing the opk tests and letting nature take its course....
but it looks like im gonna have to have IVF neways, thats why this is our last month, hoping that when we least expect it, it will happen.

Fingers crossed for u tho xx

 

[charlene09]

aww why have you got to have IVF ?

& Thankyou xx

 

[ema-lou24]

OH has a low sperm count...so its hard to concieve naturally.

we have been to the infertility clinic and theyve told us we need IVF but we cant get it funded on NHS, need to pay for it ourselves.

Good luck tho, it will happen xx

 

[charlene09]

Where can my OH get his sperm checked

Im worried now

 

[ema-lou24]

lol dont b...

we went to our doctors and just explained, and they gave him a cup, we called her "melinda" lol, handed it into the hosp within the hour and got results next day.

average male sperm is around the 20million mark and over 50% mobility

my OH was less than 5million and 20%mobility...but it only takes one bad boy!! lol

chin up hun, u will be fine xx

 

[charlene09]

One bad boy ! haha

wish that one bad boy would fertilize my bad girl lol

 

[ema-lou24]

lol i think the same!!

i heard somewhere that get your OH to take zinc and folic acid, it supposidly makes his swimmers.....swim!!

im hoping this works for us, we havent got 5k.

it will happen hun, i know it will for me too, one day x