I need to rant

[Roo3]

Sorry ladies, but I really need a rant...

For a few weeks now, I've been wondering if a colleague of mine is pregnant, she looks as though she's put on weight and had been going to the loo constantly. Over the past few months she's told us that her boyfriend has beat her up, got another girl pregnant following a one night stand and is basically a bit of a waster.
Yesterday, I asked another collegue if the other girl was pregnant... to be told yes she's nearly 12 weeks along. Normally, I'd be so happy if I found out anyone was pregnant, but this just seems so wrong.
This girl cannot even look after herself let alone a baby. She's doing it for all the wrong reasons - mainly to keep this waster of a boyfriend.

It just seems so unfair that some people can get pregnant so easily when other people who want to get pregnant for all the right reasons can't or it takes ages.

I feel so jealous and I hate feeling like this. It's not common knowledge yet so when she starts to tell people I'm going to really struggle to act happy for her.

Rant over, thanks for reading.

xxx

 

[Mummy2Adam]

I understand where you are coming from roo, its so fustrating x x


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[Princess81]

Life's not fair is it?? maybe it'll be the making of her though - you never know x

 

[Roo3]

I'm not sure but you might be right. Its just really wound me up! I'm never like this. Last week I went to see my friends newborn, didn't feel jealous just made me want one more!

 

[Lara_M]

Its natural to feel like this. Sometimes I get little pangs of jealousy and I feel terrible for it, but it happens. I last felt like this last Xmas when my sister in law arrived at the family xmas lunch and just put a scan pic on the window sill and then just waited until one by one everyone spotted it and started to gasp "ooooh, whos baby pic is that?" Well I just thought this was a bit insensitive because she knew how much I wanted a baby and I hate to say it but it kind of spolit my xmas as I wish she could have just come straight out with "Im pregnant" To top it all, ihaving spent the last two years saying she wasnt all that fussed about having kids she somehow managed the miracle of getting married in the August, coming off the pill on the honeymoon (having been on it for12 years without a break and she was a smoker) yet she fell pregnant in the September!!! So first cycle!!!!! I couldnt believe it! The gorgeous baby is now born and I adore her to pieces and am happy for them, but sometimes those little pangs of "Some people are jammy" get you!!! x x x

 

[cherelle]

my OH is a social worker and works for our local drug and alcohol team, he constantly tells me stories of young girls that get pregnant who are abusing their bodies etc life just isnt fair...... then again i am the result of a young fling and i am now ttc. I guess it takes all sorts x