I need a little love :(

[newbie1984]

Hi girls

Don't know why but I'm feeling REALLY low today. I miss my OH terribly as I'm not able to see him more than 1 or 2 nights a week right now because of his work, and any time he does get off I'm working. Im starting to be excluded from things with my friends because it all involves drinking and going out and let's face it being the sober one and personal taxi isn't that exciting so i don't mind the not socialising part but it would still be nice to be asked rather than just assume I don't want to go.... I don't know I just feel very low today and need to get it off my chest and really want my OH to be able to give me a big hug and say everything will be better feeling a little emotional lol sorry all sigh........

 

[Mrs Wibbily]

Oh sweetie that must be so tough for you. Have you any family members you could spend the evening with so you're not on your own?
Have you any chocolate in? Chocolate always helps.
Why don't you have a chat with your friends and explain that you're finding it hard not being part of the circle any more. Couldn't you grab one of them and go to the flicks or something?
Get an early night if you can, have a good cry if needs be and hopefully you'll wake up feeling a bit better. xxx

 

[PeaPod]

Big hug!My OH has to work away a lot so I know that lonely feeling and it sucks.
As for not seeing friends much anymore, you should tell them how you feel and that you still need them in your life. I often phone friend if I'm on my own and feeling crap. I knoow its not the same but you always have us in the evenings!X

 

[Doob]

Sorry you're feeling down hun have PM'ed you xx

 

[newbie1984]

Thanks all. It's not even about missing my friends, I just really miss my OH so much I could cry thinking about it..... Aaaah too late!

 

[ceebee]

Ah hon, being pregnant can be really testing at times... Try to be kind to yourself and do little things to make yourself feel good - treat your self to something nice, catch up with an old friend that sort of thing... It must be hard when your OH isn't there and the hormones can make you feel miserable too.... Big hugs and hope you feel better nowxxxx

 

[newbie1984]

I had a chat with OH last night and explained I just need some reassurance and a little extra love and attention right now. He kinda got it I think it's just everything that's happened over this 1 weekend. I'll be fine x