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I just know it :(

Maximus17

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Hiya so I am about 6dpo today and started to have the same symptoms as all the other months like af on the way and I just know I am not pregnant again:( I broke down in tears today that it’s never going to happen. I only have one more month to try and DH doesn’t want to try anymore. So so sad:(
 
I'm so sorry Maximus. That's awful having only one more month left. I think your other half is being mean.
 
Is there absolutely no chance your OH will change his mind about this being your final month? I can't imagine how upset you must be about this possibly being the last chance! I will keep my FX for you Maximus, I hops this cycle brings your BFP :hugs:
 
He is not changing his mind :( I said we can talk about it again end of jan. he said he doesn’t want to keep wondering about TTC and wants to move on. I just don’t think it will happen easily for me :(
 
Maybe he would be happy to NTNP? At least TTC wouldn't be forefront anymore but there could still be a shot every month? :)
 
I already mentioned that but he said he hates not knowing and he just wants to make plans for the future and move on also he said if it was meant to be it would have happened I don’t agree with it to be honest but I can’t force him into it. The only hope I have is to convince him to try for another couple of months but that would be it. I am praying every day that it will happen soon so I won’t have to try to talk him into it.
 
What an awful predicament, how painful for you, I am so sorry. How long have you been TTC? I really hope you don't have to face any of this and you are surprised with a BFP this cycle!
 
It’s been 5 cycles not too long but long enough to put my husband off. He thinks if it’s meant to be it will happen and he is very happy with our daughter. I am longing for another child soooo bad. My husband never wanted to a second child but agreed to try for me for a bit. I naively thought it would happen so fast like it did with our daughter. He would never try for las long as a year though. So I somehow have to find peace and accept having only one child.
 
So sorry to hear this Maximus. Just wanted to wish you luck this cycle.
 
It’s been 5 cycles not too long but long enough to put my husband off. He thinks if it’s meant to be it will happen and he is very happy with our daughter. I am longing for another child soooo bad. My husband never wanted to a second child but agreed to try for me for a bit. I naively thought it would happen so fast like it did with our daughter. He would never try for las long as a year though. So I somehow have to find peace and accept having only one child.

Does he not realise that on average it takes 6 months to conceive? For some people it's much longer and that's normal. The if it's meant to be stuff is rubbish - you can say that after a few years trying but not 5 months. I'm really sorry hon. I feel angry on your behalf. Hugs xxx
 
I don't get why he would only try for a set amount of time. If he wants another baby it takes as long as it takes. Really hope it happens for you x
 
thanks all, I really don't think he wants another child as much as I do. like I mentioned he only agreed to try because of me. He is very happy with one child. I really don't understand his logic as he said he will be happy if I get pregnant within 6 months so really confusing. Oh man I wish it was easier.
 
Honestly, that's awful to put a time limit on it!! We tried for 8 cycles I think and we were just arguing and it was a horrible time. We decided to stop looking at apps and ov tests and fertile window BD etc. The one month we both just took our minds off it, it happened. But much much easier said than done. You never know, once you stop trying it may just happen for you xx
 

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