i just dont know anymore!!

[XbabygirlshelliX]

im trying to do my nvq level 3 course work in childcare but scince the summer holidays started n ive been off work all i can think about is will this month be the month!!

i have a few symptoms but ive already bled this month n had a negative test as my period wasnt the same as normal n im not managing to do my work cos all i keep thinking is im gunna do another test next month to see if iam or not please help!!

 

[cherelle]

I think the most important thing is to stay positive and try not to let it take over your life. You've obviously got things you want to achieve and im sure plenty of work to get stuck into ready for the new term? Stressing out will certainly not help you conceive as we all know - why not treat yourself to de-stress?! Maybe shopping or go out with your OH and enjoy yourselves? Sounds like you need some me time xx

 

[cherelle]

and maybe change your name on here?? i would get down if i had set my name to 'no luck cherelle' - be positive!!

sending baby dust xxx

 

[XbabygirlshelliX]

lol thankyou n weve been goign out having fun spending time with our mates n destressing lol it just keeps coming bak to the for front of my mind we want it so much we feel like we hve something missing cos we want it so much n aye il change it lol its mainly aimed at everything we do summet bad happends more bad then good lol xx

 

[cherelle]

some people say we bring our own luck by our attitudes and perception on things and i do believe this a bit - chin up, smile and get BDing im sure you will get lucky soon! xx

 

[XbabygirlshelliX]

i allways say mother nature will bless us with a lil miracle when shes ready but ova past 2 mnths weve had alot of negative tests when ive had alot of symptoms xx

 

[cherelle]

yeah, your body can play cruel tricks on you - ive had loads of symptoms the last couple of months too - i know how disheartening it can be but hey it will all be worth it in the end!!

Good luck x

 

[XbabygirlshelliX]

same goes to you but i know this sounds silly but my sex drive as such lol has become none existant!! literally i just want to go sleep cos im tired alot more but normally i can bd as much as want as did have high sex drive so right now im confused cos i still find my fiance attractive still fancy him as much as first got together 2 years ago lol n still want him just as much so weres it gone i want it bak!! lol how long have you been ttc?? xxx baby dust to u xxx

 

[star fish]

V good advice Cherelle! How long have you actually been trying shelli? It doesnt sound like it's been that long - give it a chance. Also if you think about it so much then your body will play even more tricks on you. A friend of mine finally had a good pregnancy after 4 miscarriages, and then when she went for ultrasound it turned out to be a 'phantom pregnancy', her body had created one because she wanted it so much, she had even gotten BFP on all the tests, but there was nothing there! Don't let that happen to you, she was devastated! (I would like to end this though by saying that 3 months later she got a real BFP and is now 6 months along).

xx

 

[XbabygirlshelliX]

i have been ttc for 6 months hunni n thts the part that scares me lol i go n watch rugby n when been out with my friends n weve not been on about babies or nething n ive not thought about em it just pops up in my head n im doing a childcare course n whiles im doing the work it just pops in my head its like no matta what i think about it pops up even when im busy!! thank you for this girls n congrats to your friend xxxx

 

[star fish]

I know this will sound like the most annoying thing in the whole world, and wondered whether or not to say it, but i will say it because maybe no one has said it to you before and it will make you feel better, but 6 months actually isnt that long! No need to panic at all. There are loads of women on here who have been trying for much longer than that. So don't let it get you down, I do understand that your course is probably making it feel harder than ever, but seriously, it often takes people a year, sometimes much more, it's just how it is, so chip up, keep trying and give it time, loads more time xx

 

[XbabygirlshelliX]

i completely agree 6 months is like a breeze lol sound very contradicting i dont mean to lol ive allways said it teks over a year to get pregnant i think its cos of how ive been feeling tbh n like my motto states if mother nature wants u to be a mum n yr partner a dad it will happen ive just not felt myself at ll these past 2 weeks n i didnt find my course a problem until now so i dont know if its cos its the summer holidays so i have my work to do but no actual job to go to cos its closed so i have more time on my hands i dunno u r been really helpful btw so dont worry i was talking to my best mate about how ive been feeling n all i keep getting is yr pregnant n shes really excited n its really got the fiances hopes up to my heart goes out to all those women it really does may they get a miracle as soon as possible they deserve it loads xxx

ps how do i change my name on here cos its noluck shelli cos my luck in life not when ttc lol xx

 

[cherelle]

we all deserve it and it will happen for us all - just imagine how great it will be when we are congratulating each other! xx

 

[XbabygirlshelliX]

lol i know im feeling much better in myself today think its cos i know summer holidays are coming to an end so bk to work as when im not at work its not on my mind all the time (to busy with kids at work lol) thankyou for everything hope u get a lil miracle soon xxx

 

[XbabygirlshelliX]

lol i know im feeling much better in myself today think its cos i know summer holidays are coming to an end so bk to work as when im at work its not on my mind all the time (to busy with kids at work lol)


thankyou for everything hope u get a lil miracle soon xxx

 

[cherelle]

you too! x

 

[star fish]

I second that shelli.

PS. sorry not a clue re changing a name

x

 

[XbabygirlshelliX]

lol cos got more time on yr hands lol i feel such an idiot today i really do but suppose one of them things n ok thankyou for been there xx