Pinktink23
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Good Morning Ladies,
I apologise for the depressing Thread as i know alot of you are going through labour throughout these months....
I havent put a thread up for a while because all i simply want to put is that i cant do this and i feel alone. I have commented on a few peoples who have felt down and said it will be ok blah blah but yet i cant seem to get that bit in my head. Alot of things have been happening at home with the OH hes been playing alot of mind games... first it was me being blamed for having hormones and im taking it wrong and you know what ive thought yeah it prob is. But the last few days he has switched and happened to in the process break my heart. Im the first on to defend him and find an excuse for his behaviour. But all i have left now is me hoping and praying that he MANS UP when the baby is here.
i'll be honest, the last month all i have done is Cry! this is coming from a girl who never cried and didnt even cry when my mum had cancer i helped her pull through that... My friends are sick of hearing im ok one min, next im sad because hes said something. Ive lost alot of friends because of this. My family are starting to see it and are very concerned but telling me to leave him and we will be there for you doesnt help.
The one person who has kept me sane bless her is SarahCarps and she lives 4hrs away. I dont know how i would have coped without her and i wonna say a massive thanks to her.
This is a pointless thread thinking about it now, but this is the time i should be getting excited and getting things done, when all i wonna do is hide under my duvet and cry myself to sleep. how can i be a great mum when i cant even stand up for myself?! xxxx
I apologise for the depressing Thread as i know alot of you are going through labour throughout these months....
I havent put a thread up for a while because all i simply want to put is that i cant do this and i feel alone. I have commented on a few peoples who have felt down and said it will be ok blah blah but yet i cant seem to get that bit in my head. Alot of things have been happening at home with the OH hes been playing alot of mind games... first it was me being blamed for having hormones and im taking it wrong and you know what ive thought yeah it prob is. But the last few days he has switched and happened to in the process break my heart. Im the first on to defend him and find an excuse for his behaviour. But all i have left now is me hoping and praying that he MANS UP when the baby is here.
i'll be honest, the last month all i have done is Cry! this is coming from a girl who never cried and didnt even cry when my mum had cancer i helped her pull through that... My friends are sick of hearing im ok one min, next im sad because hes said something. Ive lost alot of friends because of this. My family are starting to see it and are very concerned but telling me to leave him and we will be there for you doesnt help.
The one person who has kept me sane bless her is SarahCarps and she lives 4hrs away. I dont know how i would have coped without her and i wonna say a massive thanks to her.
This is a pointless thread thinking about it now, but this is the time i should be getting excited and getting things done, when all i wonna do is hide under my duvet and cry myself to sleep. how can i be a great mum when i cant even stand up for myself?! xxxx