I feel like a complete mug :(

[ShineyHappyPeople]

I'm feeling low today and I'm sat here in tears at my hubby All I did was ask him for a cup of tea and he just made stupid excuses to get out of it!! Thats all I asked for, a stupid cup of tea but no, that was too much bother I do 95% of housework, I do my share of the dinners and we both work full time. I feel like I'm being taken for granted and not appreciated. Its hard to do all these things when you don't sleep well at night and you feel all achey half the time.. you ladies know what its like.

So much for the understanding men who say "oh course darling, i'll get that for you" I'm not doing aother thing for him until he rethinks his attitude...

 

[Snuggle]

Aw hun, just ask him why it was too much trouble. Dont let it get to you, men can be quite insensitive sometimes

 

[louears]

aww no that is not good, sorry you are feeling like this, all over a cup of tea, he should have made you one hun, you are going through a lot, growing a baby is hard work, men are hard work!, i hope he realises he could save a lot of trouble just by making you the odd drink. i would make you one

 

[allycat]

That's men for ya! He should have just made you the cup of tea, it's not asking for much!

 

[Anna23]

aww hun have loads of these

 

[JayK2387]

I completely sympathise with you hun.

Me and my bf had a solid week of arguing - nasty arguements over how he didnt help.

He'd actually ask me to get him a drink but this was asked like "get me a drink fatty"

Ive recently gone part time and things are SOOO much better now, and after breaking down and threatening to leave he's helping much more.

I hope he bucks his ideas up soon huni, you need help with things... xxx

 

[Becc]

Men can just be lazy sometimes, chick, and they don't think like us so they don't realise that it hurts because it's something so small and they can't be bothered to make an effort when we're carrying their baby around all day. That isn't an excuse though and you should explain to him that he has no idea what being pregnant is like and he needs to help out more because you're trying your best and you're absolutely exhausted

 

[Laurababs]

Im sure he didn't mean to upset you men just dont have a clue sometimes (most of the time ) Maybe you could talk to him about how you feel

 

[ShineyHappyPeople]

I feel a bit silly now making such a big deal over a small cup of tea.. but thats my point, it was such a small thing to ask in the first place.. anyway hes apologised and has offered to make me one now but im not bothered now since hes only doing it because of the fuss im making.

I don't know whether im overreacting because of these hormones or whether im genuinely hurt at him! argh lol

 

[Mama 2 Be]

I feel a bit silly now making such a big deal over a small cup of tea.. but thats my point, it was such a small thing to ask in the first place.. anyway hes apologised and has offered to make me one now but im not bothered now since hes only doing it because of the fuss im making.

I don't know whether im overreacting because of these hormones or whether im genuinely hurt at him! argh lol

You are not overreacting - that's the way things are for us PG ladies at the moment. It's not too much to ask for a wee cup of tea even if you are not pregnant. Men can be lazy and thoughtless sometimes.

Let me tell you - I'm at work all day today and Hubby is off as he has no work, he's moving the office out of the spare room (no rush to do it) - He doesn't know this bit yet but if he expects me to cook dinner tonight when I get in after being at work all day he can have a wee rethink about that situation or feel my wrath!!

Take the tea and say you are craving something that isn't in the house and make sure he goes out and gets it for you! Failing that cry and say 'How is this supporting me?'

 

[ShineyHappyPeople]

I feel a bit silly now making such a big deal over a small cup of tea.. but thats my point, it was such a small thing to ask in the first place.. anyway hes apologised and has offered to make me one now but im not bothered now since hes only doing it because of the fuss im making.

I don't know whether im overreacting because of these hormones or whether im genuinely hurt at him! argh lol

You are not overreacting - that's the way things are for us PG ladies at the moment. It's not too much to ask for a wee cup of tea even if you are not pregnant. Men can be lazy and thoughtless sometimes.

Let me tell you - I'm at work all day today and Hubby is off as he has no work, he's moving the office out of the spare room (no rush to do it) - He doesn't know this bit yet but if he expects me to cook dinner tonight when I get in after being at work all day he can have a wee rethink about that situation or feel my wrath!!

Take the tea and say you are craving something that isn't in the house and make sure he goes out and gets it for you! Failing that cry and say 'How is this supporting me?'

haha your a bad influence but I like it. *Makes up mind to demand galaxy*... actually I really do want some now