i dont know what to do

[breezee1984]

i feel so violently ill and so scared and sad im not sure what to do. i have a migraine, my stomach is very badly upset, i havent stopped crying in almost a week. all i do is lay here. hubby keps trying to console me and i keep telling him to leave me alone that i dont deserve to be consoled. he gets mad at me. i cant do this anymore....

 

[katyk]

aren't you going to the hosp today? You could have a word with the docs then and explain how you're feeling?

 

[breezee1984]

i tried...they told me, o this is something u have to deal with on your own....great people they r..

 

[katyk]

I can't believe they said that

Did they give you a leaflet about miscarriage?

Anyway this is the organisation I think that they give out leaflets about http://www.miscarriageassociation.org.u ... /index.htm they have a helpline and are very supportive I think

If you see a doc for your depression, you might like to let him know what happened too.

 

[breezee1984]

ive been going in circles with doctors for a week...they have not done 1 thing to help me at all, i do not even trust them at all
thats why i wanted a midwife, i let hubby convinve me otherwise

 

[jenna]

 

[babydust]

I think this is terrible you are still under their care and they have an obligation to you, i really think you should ask to talk to someone about whats best for you and tell them what you are feeling, there is no way they should tell you that its something you need to do on your own, Were you booked in for a d&c today?

 

[mum2be?]

I am going to pm you hunny

 

[breezee1984]

I think this is terrible you are still under their care and they have an obligation to you, i really think you should ask to talk to someone about whats best for you and tell them what you are feeling, there is no way they should tell you that its something you need to do on your own, Were you booked in for a d&c today?

i WAS then the doctor said she wants to chat with me first and discuss all of my options blah blah blah...even though i told her i cant sit around and wait to pass this...not to mention i havent even begun to even bleed let alone anything else

 

[xzaviers_mama]

So your docs told you this is all something you need to deal with on your own... then you called different counselors, and they all said this is something you need to deal with on your own?? Hmmm...

I do live in the US... quite close to you actually, and I find it hard to believe that everyone in the medical profession shrugs you off this way... and they all happen to tell you the exact same thing??
And FYI... therapists get paid the same regardless of what you want to talk about while you're in there... so you wouldn't get turned away because they're money hungry and you're not worth their time... they will get paid the same to talk to you about your babies... or someone who is having marital problems... or someone who was raped... etc, etc.

 

[Urchin]

I have pmed this person.