I am 15 years and pregnant what can i do?

[kirkie]

Hey i am new and i am 15 years old and pregnant.
I dont want to abort and just want some advice on what i would be like and what to do.
I have a 18 year old boyfriend who is sticking by me.
Please give me advice
Thanks xx

 

[hev&madi]

have you told your parents? there the best support you need xxx im only 19 i fell preg at 18 and my dad was always there for me

 

[MissGobby]

yeah like Hev says - or someone close to you who you can talk to!!!

good luck with whatever you decide hunny

 

[kirkie]

Yer i have told my parents and they are ok
Its just my boyfriends parents
They are gonna chuck him out and they want me to abort
Any advice?

 

[MissGobby]

YEAH - dont listen to them! at the end of the day it is your & your bf's baby - NOT his parents!!!! it is your choice so you do what is best for you.

DO WHAT IS RIGHT FOR YOU AND YOUR BF - NOT!!!! AND I SAY - NOT HIS PARENTS!!!!!

all the love and hugs for you sweetie xxx x xxxxxxx xxxxx

 

[hev&madi]

aww thats really harsh! i hope you an your partner are ok its all up to you not them!!!

dont let it stress you hunny x

 

[Princess_Puddles]

Being pregnant at such a young age is hard but aslong as you have thought it through thoroughly and know that you and your OH are prepared for it then I wish you all the best. Babies are very expensive, take up alot of your time and you have many sleepless nights but I know I wouldn't change it for the world!!

 

[lil_miss123]

i no u have read my situation and i followed what others said at first and then thought about things and let my feelings decide... i knew i wouldent be able to go through with an abotion and took a risk at sayin to my bf im keepin it....knowing that i could loose all....but things looked up

only do something if you want to do it hunni dont let anyone try and make you do anythin u dont want to do!....

can ure bf look for a place for you both to live? i dont kinow the situation but thats what me and my boyfriend are doin at the moment!

 

[Izzy]

hiya, welcome to the forum.

its very difficult while youre still at school - have to told them yet? will you continue with your exams etc?

best of luck for your pregnancy

izzyx

 

[*saulino*]

Hi

Welcome and Congradulations. Do what you feel is right im sure the first few weeks will be tough but im sure his parents will come around with time
Katrina

 

[Sarah&Braydon]

hey hun i say follow ur heart do wot u feel is rite!!

 

[Robyn_]

Yer i have told my parents and they are ok
Its just my boyfriends parents
They are gonna chuck him out and they want me to abort
Any advice?

tbh with you thats what i would be scare of, but like others have said its your and your bfs baby and your choice if you want to keep it or not.
good luck huni
and let us know how you get on wont you.
xxx

 

[phillylou]

im also 15 and pregnant if you want to speak im happy to help. good look x

 

[cassi]

its a big thing but icf your ready for it then congrats....only thing that could pose a problem is that your bf is actually breaking the law by sleeping with you at 15...i dont know what happens in that situation though.....

good luck

 

[Flame]

Dont mean to sound funny but i think that was a bit of a pointless comment to make Cassi. Nothing will happen to him as noone has made any complaints to the police or social services.

 

[*saulino*]

Hi

Yes i beleve it would have to be the parents making a complaint ,but now adays it so common i really dont think the police really care unless its a serious issue and 3 years aint much of an age gad. i dont think age matters Bernie and i met when i was 16 and he was 25 .
Were here if you need to chat

Katrina

 

[Skyla]

Hey, i'm in the same situation as you...15 years old and 11 weeks pregnant (well, 12 as of tomorrow). Feel free to message me any time

 

[bekki_16]

heya, i was in the same position as u at 15 but things can only get betta feel free 2 msg me any time xx

 

[trixipaws]

Yer i have told my parents and they are ok
Its just my boyfriends parents
They are gonna chuck him out and they want me to abort
Any advice?

its a shame his parents hav reacted badly but hopefully they'll come round. my mum went absolutely crazy when i told her i was pregnant and had such a go at me i was in tears- and i'm 26! i left home when i was 19! i suppose parents can be like that no matter what ur age.

its really gr8 that ur parents are supportive tho- and even more gr8 that ur boyfriend is and is sticking by u.

can he afford to rent his own place? or can u guys get housing from the council or something? maybe ur doctor or a teacher might be able 2 put u in touch with someone who can help, maybe someone who specialises in ur kind of situation?

if u want 2 abort that is ur choice, but do NOT let urself be bullied or pressured into it. u are old enough to make ur own choice about ur own body and ur own baby- and dont let anyone tell u otherwise!

good luck with everything

 

[cassi]

Flame I was referring to the facts that the parents could make a complaint, or if midwifes had to say something in that sort of situation.

So no I really dont think it was pointless I think it is a very valid comment .

And i dont think age matters either im just going by the age of consent over here, when I was 15 I had a bf who was 20, and my DF now is 10 years ahead of me, hence it wasnt said in a spitefull way.