Assuming you weren't joking about her always waking while you are making dinner, maybe she is being woken by the smell. For a long time smells such as cooking would wake DD. Now we close the kitchen door and there's no problem.
Steelgoddess said:The only thing is I feel SOOO GUILTY he watches us as if to say "Wheres Mine Mummy?" and I just feel so guilty eating something he can;t have, does anyone else get that???