Housing Advice needed. UPDATED!!

maybe pop to a local cit adivce? sure they'd be able to do the sums for you !?
 
lmarszall said:
Sorry guys,

When i posted for advice i didn't intend to cause an arguement.

As i happens i may be better off as a single mum. But i am not and i couldn't pretned i lived on my own as it is fraud and last thing my baby need is me getting a whopping fine or worse!

Thanks for all the advice though.

I need to find out how much it would cost to get our own place and how much money we will be getting when i'm off work on Mat leave.

Does anyone know roughly how much child tax credit you get?
If DP was working and i was on mat leave?

Thanks
Lau
xxx

Dont worry Imarszall you didnt cause anything :hug:

My friend was in a simular kinda situation but was going back to work, the local jobcentre helped her work out what benefits she would be entitled to when she went back to work etc.

Im sure they would help you out if you call in and see them as im pretty sure it all depends on your individual situation.

Good luck with it all sweety xxxx
 
after my post with marshall i realized that maybe what i wrote down was a bit out of order, and i'm sorry if i pissed anyone off, :?

and i completely understand why you would all get the hump with me :roll: but what iam doing is not wrong because i did not lie about getting my own place my mum did throw me out and i had to fen for myself after finding out i was pregnant.......

my hubby does live with me but only for a little while as his finding a place... of his own, his on a temp job that finish very soon and then will have no money at all. also i'm not on any benefit now and i have no money. only what he gives me and that's for food, because i are saving for are baby..

i just like to say that i'm not one of those people who suck off the state and i would not want that for my child.... it's not all peaches and cream getting off them, i quite hate going in to the job center asking for help, but i need it. i'm at college and i'm making something of myself. before i ended up on support for the rest of my life


flame i respect you for standing up and speaking out, but what i was just saying is if you pumped me and asked me more then maybe all this would not of happy....you speak your mind like i do

anyway i'm sorry again for the whole thing
 
I'm a drug dealer, but I'm only doing it for a little while so it doesn't matter

FRAUD IS FRAUD. claiming benefits that you aren't entitled to is FRAUD, whether you do it for one day, one week, one month, or the rest of your life. Claiming countil tax benefit and housing benefit is still money you're not necessarily entitled to, and probably adds up to over £100 a week.

It's bad enough when our hard earned money goes in taxes to pay for the people that are entitled to sponge off the state (by that I'm meaning the people that see their job as claiming benefits, not everybody that claims benefits), let alone supporting those that are not even entitled to the benefits
 
First Post
neeko_1 said:
my hubby works Mon-Fri with a very good wage.. they don't know his living with me.. i don't pay any rent or council tax just electric and gas

Second Post
neeko_1 said:
also i'm not on any benefit now and i have no money.

Im sorry hun but you said in your original post that 'they' dont know he lives with you and you dont pay rent or c.tax.... Now you've said that your not on any benefit :think: :?
 
may i ask why you dont live with your husband?
 
sorry hun.. i mean i'm not getting any money in my hand.....

look i've already said sorry... and i don't want to chat about this anymore.. because it will just end up in an argument and i don't really want to make any enemies on the site


as i said sorry ladies :roll:
 
jenna said:
may i ask why you dont live with your husband?


do you know how many times i've said this.... he is not my husband just my long term partner.. so we call each other wifey and hubby....

instead of boyfriend
 
neeko_1 said:
jenna said:
may i ask why you dont live with your husband?


do you know how many times i've said this.... he is not my husband just my long term partner.. so we call each other wifey and hubby....

instead of boyfriend

No i dont, that why i asked. Where im from hubby/husband generally means married. Other than myspace teens that thinks its cool to call there best mates wife :rotfl:
 
well where i'm form... you can do either way, it doesn't really matter,i would of said my husband if we where married......


but that's are little thing we do :D
 
Ok, i wasnt starting an arguement or anything btw but you can see why it would be confusing :hug:
 
jenna said:
Ok, i wasnt starting an arguement or anything btw but you can see why it would be confusing :hug:

yeh def... that what i meant by.. do you know how many times i've said that...

all the ladies ask my if i'm married just because i say hubby :hug:
 
Let leave it ehh?!

No hard feelings hun, just confused thats all! :)
 
Really hope you can get things sorted imarszall! Me and my husband live with my mum because we have no other option at the moment. We're hoping to part buy very soon. Can't believe what some people are like! There we are struggling to get by and live in a single room with an 18 month old son and there are people committing fraud to get their own way. Disgusting.
 
im sorry hun but dont think wot ur doing is rite any way u try and explain it like everyone has sed fraud is fraud
and there alot of people worse of with no where to live who should be allowed
 
Hi All,

I am so sorry this seems to be such an emotive subject! I seem to have opened a can of worms and i did not intend to!

Anyway an update to me dilemma!

My partner and i sat and worked out our money. We figure we could just about afford a council place with bills and stuff. When i am on maternity pay. It will be a tight and we will have to be very stingy. But we will get by. For a two bed place in our area rent is about £85 per week. + council tax and bills. So its quite alot.

However in January when i am back at work we have figured we will have at least an extra £600 a month disposable income! Which is alot, and we will be fine. So we have to wait and see. Chances are we wont get a place before then anyway.

I emailed the council asking about their waiting times and they said the average wait for a 2 bed place is 2.6 years (depending on the area you want etc) I joinmed the list on the 05/08/05. So in theory i should stand a good change of getting a place by next March / April?

But we will start applying for places now just incase.

So thanks for all the advice!

Love Laura
xxxxxx
 
I'm sure you could go to the council and say due to the pregnancy and your mothers tendancy to drink and overcrowding etc she has asked you to leave within 4 weeks (this is considered 'short notice' and you do become a little more of a priority) and you and your husband/partner are expecting a child, are on a low income, have no where to go and so forth. If you keep communicating with them something will surely come up for you. If push came to shove and your Mum did say "out now" type thing the will house you and your husband/partner together in what they call emergency shelters, this might be a local B&B it might be a hostel some miles from your current location, it depends on avaliability etc. Once you are in emergency shelter you do become top of the housing list and are usually offered temporary accommodation within just a few weeks, sometimes days depending again on the area and demand etc and after that a permanant residence so long as you 'behave' in the temporary accommodation, i.e. no complaints about noise, anti-social behavour and so forth. Then it's like every other couple/person moving into council housing, you sign your contract and can then apply for housing benefit, tax credits, child tax credits and despite having one income you can still claim for income support. Even if you earn just enough to not qualify for weekly payouts to you it might be enough so you would qualify for things like free prescriptions and milk tokens etc. Every little helps! There are maternity grants and schemes out there but I know little about those as I know we don't qualify for anything of the sort given I've been a "lady of leisure" for a few years now - be honest with telling them what you earn, what's coming in via current benefits etc as you will need to provide proof and possibly bank statements etc also - we had a man knock on our door about 4 months ago from housing benefit, the lady over the road is apparently claiming it as a single mother of 2 children. She has 1 son and her other half lives with her. We were just asked basic questions like whether we knew their names, how many people would we say lived there on a permanant basis and so forth, as soon as we said they were as far as we knew an unmarried couple with one child he said that matched up to everyone elses statements of them and thus they were committing benefit fraud - I don't know what happened after that, I don't really know my neighbours that well but it was quite eye opening to think that everyone that had been asked had opened their mouths and spoke out about what they did know - I honestly didn't think that many people would have. Anyway I'm digressing now. Just keep in contact, every other day or something, with the housing/council etc and don't be afraid to back your case up with letters from your doctor or social services for things like overcrowding or saying your afraid for the baby given your mum drinks and can be unpredictable with allowing you to stay and not stay etc - every little helps, fight your case fairly, you will get somewhere I assure you. Good luck.
 
Oops sorry that post is kinda long....didn't mean it to sound like a lecture or anything, I was just waffling as per normal xx
 

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