Hello sis. Its hard isnt it? Im just at the house now. He has gone to the cancer care hospice and im just cleaning up. Im their for you big sis and we will get through this together. Thanx everyone for your kind thoughts xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx Kellies little sister.
Hes loosing his batttle!
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Im so sorry to hear that about ur father, but if u can speak to ur father its good as ive heard that the hearing sence is the last to go he might not respond when u speak with him but he can hear you, my thoughts and prays are with u all
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My thoughts are with you and your family at this time hunI'm so so sorry to hear your sad news, all I can say is tell him everything you want to say, the last thing you want is to regret not saying it.
When my dad died in June I was going to tell him I loved him when we left the hospital but didn't, I just kissed him on the cheek & said see you in the morning. Little did I know that 15 mins later he would be gone, My Mum & I got called back to the hospital & we ran into the ward just as he died, I have wished i'd said it now
The only bit of solice we got from Dad dieing was that he was out of pain finally and the suffering had stopped.
My thoughts go out to you & your family
When my dad died in June I was going to tell him I loved him when we left the hospital but didn't, I just kissed him on the cheek & said see you in the morning. Little did I know that 15 mins later he would be gone, My Mum & I got called back to the hospital & we ran into the ward just as he died, I have wished i'd said it now
The only bit of solice we got from Dad dieing was that he was out of pain finally and the suffering had stopped.
My thoughts go out to you & your family
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I am so sorry, I cant imagine how you must be feeling.
I lost a friend to cancer, he was 36 and although he was ill for a few years, it was still a massive shock when he finally died. Although we were all expecting it to happen, it was as though he had been killed suddenly, like in an accident or something, it was that raw and painful for everyone left behind.
Be kind to yourselves, your have the love and support of family and friends. I am sure your dad hears you so talk to him and tell him how much you love him. I hope when the time comes, he is at peace with those he loves around him.
My thoughts are with you all xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
I lost a friend to cancer, he was 36 and although he was ill for a few years, it was still a massive shock when he finally died. Although we were all expecting it to happen, it was as though he had been killed suddenly, like in an accident or something, it was that raw and painful for everyone left behind.
Be kind to yourselves, your have the love and support of family and friends. I am sure your dad hears you so talk to him and tell him how much you love him. I hope when the time comes, he is at peace with those he loves around him.
My thoughts are with you all xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Just come back from the hospice and he was actully quite responsive. I really didn't expect that. My mum told him he was there and the said hello and opened his eyes briefly. A lot of it was mumbling but a lot of the time he was talking. This has confused me even more, I don't know if this is normal at the end but I keep thinking 'what if they had him on a drip and kept giving him his medication' would he come back from this? I know he can't be cured but it still puts doubts in my mind. This is one of the hardest thing I have ever done.
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Sweetie, you are being very brave. It sounds like your dad is fighting to stay with you all, and wants to talk to you when you are with him.Dont think about things too much, just take every day as it comes for now xxxxxxxx
Kellie80... this is so sad.. I truelly know how you feel.. my uncle went thru the same 5 years ago.. me and my mum practically lived at the hospital for 3 months til the end...The worst part wasnt him dying..it was the bit before..the watching someone you love so much go thru what he went thru! 
The hospital at the time said that the only way he was staying with us was the medication they where givin him... our decision was to stop givin him the meds...
Reading this post brings it all back... and really is an awful thing for anyone to go thru!
The hospital at the time said that the only way he was staying with us was the medication they where givin him... our decision was to stop givin him the meds...Reading this post brings it all back... and really is an awful thing for anyone to go thru!
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It's so hard finding the words to say! I'm so sorry
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im so sorry for what you are going through
all my thoughts are with you and your family
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all my thoughts are with you and your family
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I am so so sorry sweetie. Keep telling him how much you love him, I am sure he will hear you.
Thinking of you and your family at this difficult time
Thinking of you and your family at this difficult time
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oh hun im so sorry
