Hes loosing his batttle!

[kellie80]

I'm so confused right now! My dad was diagnosed with a brain tumor 13 months ago and now hes loosing his battle Its a grade 4 and he was only told on Friday there was nothing more they could do for him and to make the most of his time left. Hes now on a morphine driver and his breathings gone all funny. We were told today that it is likley to happen in the next 48 hours but its still a shock. I've spent all night with him and didn't want to leave but as we don't know when its gonna happen I had to come hoe, having the 3 kids and all. My heads so messed up now!

 

[Kimbo]

awww im so so sorry for what your going through.
my mum has just recovered from stage 4 cervical cancer so she was very lucky.
i really hope your ok, its the worst thing ever, but if theres nothing else they can do, just make sure you let your dad know how much you love him and what he means to you.

so sorry again

 

[kellie80]

Thanks Kimbo. I'm just so messed up right now! I told him I loved him and gave him a kiss when I left, but don't know if he can still hear me. Its soooo hard.

 

[Kimbo]

even if he can't hear you, he will still know that you are there/have been with him and he will go with that memory, knowing that he had a family who wanted to be there with him and loved him

 

[chezzabell]

awww hun iam so sorry, be strong for ur dad. Im will know ur there

 

[frangelle]

Aw hun I am so sorry

My Grandad brought me up and was my dad (not in a Jerry Springer way) and he was diagnosed with leukaemia one day, and 2 days later he was gone, it's amazing how quickly some things take hold. Unfortunately by the time I got to the hospital he was not very coherent, so I don't know if he heard what I said either

My thoughts are with you, try to be strong

 

[Babylicious]

 

[Urchin]

Oh no, so sorry to see this

I hope he goes peacefully, and as time goes on you can remember the happier times.

 

[Happybunny]

My thoughts are with you Kellie, this must be a very difficult time for you.
I hope you get chance to say everything you need to, I am sure your dad will know you are with him.

 

[AllieW]

So sorry to hear this. Thinking of you and your family at this difficult time.

 

[Dee1985]

im so sorry you going through such a hard time

Just make sure you say everything you want to say to your dad.

i will say a prayer for him, im sure he really is happy that you have been there


thinking of you

 

[jools221181]

I'm so sorry to hear what you are going through

 

[foxymum]

oh i am so sorry babe, make sure you say all you want to your Dad , ad my DH has so many regrets from when his Dad died.

keep strong hun, thinking of you

 

[Minime]

I'm sure he'll know you're there whether he can hear you or not. Thats what matters

 

[kellie80]

Hes been taken into a hospice this morning. The macmillan nurse said its unlikley to happen today as hes still quite twitchy so he needs to be looked after propally. Not that my mum isn't doing a brilliant job but he weighs 16 stone now after all the steriods hes been on and she just can't keep him clean anymore. Plus hes has always refused to have a catherther (sp) in. I just want this over now! I just can't believe how quick its gone. When they say people give up when theres nothing more they can do for them its so true.

 

[happy-chick]

Im so sorry hun, this must be so hard for you. My thought are with you & your family

 

[Emmylou]

So sorry to hear this, thinking of you at this difficult time hun

 

[Robyn_]

first of all hunni have a hug
im so sorry to hear what you are going through it must be hrrible for you and your family
weve all been through terrible tings like this,
my nan got diaognosed(sp) with Cancer and 7 weeks later she died, it was a terrile shock

youve just got to keep your head high and make your moments with you dad the best i dunno like what hes like but you culd tell him things from when your younger bring out thegood times,
i duno maybe im just going on shite,

but take care hunni and look after yourself
cos you need to you have 3 children and your dad wouldnt want you to get in a state over it
keep us informed.

 

[mum2be?]

Thinking of you hunny

 

[SarahH]

I'm so so sorry to hear about this hun.
I've PM'd you