Help =[

[Robyn_]

My bf wont tell his parents, he told me he was going to do it and then he didnt,
i have to have my antenatal classes at the doctors where his mum works in like 2 weeks and if he doesnt tell her soon shes going to find out like that andi dont want that to happen

he says hell do it tomorrow andthen it is tomorrow and he hasnt done it,
he says theres no rush but i dont want them to find out like that
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[mummykay]

if u want something doing then dont leave it to a man!!!
offer to go with him and tell his parents, show ur both commited to havin the baby and theyll find it easier to accept!
good luck

 

[little*red]

Robyn if hismum works at the doctors where you are going for your appointments, she isn't allowed to look through your files, its breech of patient confidentiality.
So don't worry about her finding out that way. I agree with Kay that you and your bf should tell his parents together, arrange a specific time to do it so he can't back out as you'll be there to make sure he tells them.
Speak to him about it, he is obviously worried about telling his parents, i know i was crapping myself about telling mines i was pregnant.
good luck

 

[cassi]

Robyn if hismum works at the doctors where you are going for your appointments, she isn't allowed to look through your files, its breech of patient confidentiality.
So don't worry about her finding out that way. I agree with Kay that you and your bf should tell his parents together, arrange a specific time to do it so he can't back out as you'll be there to make sure he tells them.
Speak to him about it, he is obviously worried about telling his parents, i know i was crapping myself about telling mines i was pregnant.
good luck

Thats true she cant look through your files but it IS possible she will see her there or in the room where the antinatal courses are held.

 

[Robyn_]

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this is really stupid now, i had an arguement with him last night hestarted blasting out to me.
"get ridof it " and stuff.
saying i was effing our lives up cos i was afraid of feeling a little bit of guilt from hving an abortion

i dont know what to do about him

leave him?
try talk to him?

i dunno

 

[cassi]

I really dont know but im going to be brutally honest now and say it really dosnt sound as if he is ready for a baby.

He needs to grow up and realise it takes 2 to make a baby. I would just leave him and let him apologise when he has grown up a little.

 

[neeko_1]

hey hun.. congrats, how far gone are you??

please don't get to worked over this.. i know it's easy to say, but he is probably still in shock and can't believe it's actually happen so maybe he is still getting over the shock,

he will tell them but it's such a big thing especially if you are both young...


i have a confession i still haven't told my dad

 

[Sarah&Braydon]

aww hun he sounds like my ex he was no way ready for a baby and 15 months later still isnt if u need to tlk im here

 

[Robyn_]

i dont understand it, hes being soo nasty to me and i dont deserve it = [
i dont know what to do.

 

[*saulino*]

Hi

Aww hun im so sorry , i really hope you two work this out, maybe he is just scared and needs more time to sink in and thats why hes not ready to tell his parents.
Katrina

 

[lozzi]

men are really immature hun, my ex was an arse at the beginning telling me to get rid and made me choose between him or her, i chose her, he gave me lots of crap even wishing his daughter dead etc but now shes here its all changed... he wont leave her alone and apparently "keeping her was the best thing i did" and he "regrets everything he said"

nob eh...

mens maturity is about 10 years prior there birth age.

dont feel presurised into doing anything you dont want to do.

Men can come and go from ur life, but u will live with ur descision for the rest of ur life.

Do what YOU want to do. NOT what he tells you to do.

 

[Barmi_Brummeh]

If u want to keep it then keep it. If he dont want it then his loss.

Grrr men annoy me so much!!

As long as u got ur mum & dad around n ya friends... u'll be fine!! Trust me i been thru it huni xxx

 

[Robyn_]

everything is fine now
hes loving the whole thing
bless him and i am keeping the baby

 

[*saulino*]

Hi

Glad everything is sorted now hun
Katrina

 

[Marmite]

Hey, im glad everything's sorted,

it is hard for the men, I mean they don't get the whole maternal thing, and its really life changing, I mean, having to rearrange your whole life is a big thing, doubt guys are ever ready for it, hehe.

Anyway. Im glad he's sticking by you.

Jess x

 

[Robyn_]

eurgh, well since i posted that, everything has gone to shit basically,
theres been posts about it on the forum in offtopic mostly.
but like.
yeah we split up cos he didnt wantt to be in a long term realtionshi anymore and didnt feel the same
and we arent talking atm cos hes being nasty to me.. so

thats all shitty.

but im happy kinda

 

[sophie-jordan]

he should of thought about the long term raltionship and all the responsibilities before he got u oregnant!
wouldnt worry 2 much hun im sure u will be fab on your own, just u and your baby, what more u need
x sophie x

 

[Robyn_]

ooh since i last wrote things have changed alot,
i am so much happier without him,
weve had arguements but only over msn and myspace becasue he cant handle real arguements faced to face,
i realised what a knob he is and he has been incredibly nasty to me.
i told him not to talk to me for the next 8 weeks (till baby born) and then ill think about talking him
ermm
im just looking forward to having my little one and being a good mum.
he can get stuffed, think he can treat me like that and get away with it,
pfft no i dont think

how are things with you??