HELP!!!!!! I don't feel pregnant

[gypsy]

Even though we have 3 BFP's on different tests I still don;t feel pregnant and am very paranoid after 2 miscarriages.
We can't have 3 duff tests surely.
Is it too early for me to feel pregnant

Shell

 

[mibiuk]

Hi Shell,

I understand completely where you are coming from with this one! It could well be that it is too early normally morning sickness normaly kicks in around 6 weeks and tbh all pregnancies are different some people get no symtoms at all!! I think i am getting off lightly atm

I am according to my dates 9+ weeks and even since finding out that I was pregnant haven't had loads of symtoms... i feel sick and want to be but cant (sorry tmi) had times when boobs hurt like mad.. but it feels like I have lost all my symtoms! But I hear from midwife this is normal!

Best peice of advice I can offer is not to get too stressed out about it.. i know easier said than done and i am going with the flow with this one!

Take care and feel free to PM me if you want to chat.

Kathy x

 

[Chrissy1]

Even though I've had quite a few symptoms....sorebbs, sickness on and off, nausea all the time, lightheadness, constant hunger....and the fact that I've probably done getting on for 20 tests now and now I've ran out of PG tests I've starting POAS on OPK's I still don't feel like I'm pregnant!

I think the thing that is worrying me is when some women say that they know they were pg before they even found out....... I know I'm PG and still I don't feel it!!

I don't think it helps that this is my first either so I think I had an idea that I would feel differntly once I was pg and I don't feel any differnt. I think I was expecting to be able to feel the baby or something even thought I know that won't happen until much later.

Hopefully once I've seen the baby on the screen or heard a heartbeat or something I'll believe that there's someting in there

what I'm trying to say is you're not alone in feeling like that.... I know quite a lot of my friends have felt the same way

 

[dannii87]

I'm pretty certain you haven't got 3 duff tests hun

Don't worry, some women don't even know they are pregnant until 12+!!! All because they didn't have any symptoms.

You might just be lucky and not feel much, but if you are worried, always chat with your MW for reassurance. I'm sure she'll tell you the same.

I've seen my bubs twice on a scan and stil can't believe I'm pregnant lol - Once you see baby on the screen, you'll be ok I'm sure

xxx

 

[louxlouxbellex]

I don't feel pregnant either and I'm just over 5 wks. I felt more (pain wise) in the week before my m/c. Although I now think that these must have been m/c pains. Therefore not having any pains now should be reassuring.

I feel quite sick in the mornings although havn't actually been sick yet but thats it. I'm hoping to get more symptoms and that will reassure me a bit.

I'm sure we will all get our symptoms in abundance soon!

 

[Andrianne]

I don't feel pregnant either.. Only sore boobs on and off and some twinges and mild cramps. I feel perfectly fine most of the time

Not that i want you to suffer but hope you get some reassuring symptoms soon! Maybe you can ask for an early scan since you had the mc's?

 

[Steelgoddess]

It is very early still, most symptoms don't kick in til 6 weeks onwards, my boobies didnt ache until about 7 or 8.

Every bambino is different, enjoy it while it lasts and try not to worry

x

 

[Fly]

Even though we have 3 BFP's on different tests I still don;t feel pregnant and am very paranoid after 2 miscarriages.
We can't have 3 duff tests surely.
Is it too early for me to feel pregnant

Shell

Ello Shell I think them tests are so accurate honey and you have 3 of them so i really do think you are pregnant congratulations With my first I didn't feel pregnant until i felt the first butterflies of kicks in my tummy... i knew i was pregnant obviously and had been through some fairly savage morning sickness...but i didn't "feel" it. As others have said, each pregnancy is different. This time I am very intune with my body so I do "feel" pregnant, plus I am not under teh stress levels you are under in terms of how worried you are havin had two MC's
Can you set aside a quiet five minutes on your own before bedtime maybe - light a candle and spend some quiet time with your hands on your tummy just concentrating on your breathing and enjoying the sight in your minds eye of them 3 BFP'S. Try n keep positive even though i understand this might be a little hard

Lots of Love Sarah xxx

 

[Lynsey]

I could have written this post! I feel exactly the same today. In fact, I have convinced myself that there is something wrong or I have made a mistake. I hope I feel more positive tomorrow but I guess we won't stop worrying until we have our scans. to everyone feeling like this. I am sure we are all being silly but we have no bump to see, no kicks to feel yet. Can't wait for the weeks to fly by!!!