OH just rung, he has just got home from work and picked up Oran from his dad & step mums and when he got their he said oran was crying his eyes out, really screaming and his dad & SM were trying to comfort him, turns out about 10 mins before he got their his SM went upstairs to the loo (they don't have stairgates) and his dad I presume was supposed to be watchig him but received a phone call (TBF it will have been important as his dad, OHs grandad died on MOnday so their trying to sort the funeral out) so oran followed she turned round at the top and saw coming up him and shouted at FIL and oran must have turned wondering who she was shouting at and fell down them
My poor baby, Ive just shouted at OH and he hung up on me, don't know why it wasnt his fault but he pissed me off. I said check for broken.fractured bones, move his wrists etc and he tells me not to be stupid, but then goes on ''oh he has a really high temp what if he doesnt wake up in the morning'' Idiot.
I hope he is ok, just text MIL to ask how many stairs and if he banged his head or anything (OH didnt ask
)Then he said ''oh and she only gave him his calpol at 5pm'' I mean FFS he is back on the calpol as his last molar has been playing up last few days and his temp is pretty high, so OH takes 1 syryinge to MIL and says only give it if needed and no later than 4PM so we can give him a dose before bed................Now he cant have any before bed FFS so that has pissed me off as well.
I think Im just upset now because I was at work gossiping away while my baby had his first major accident and his mummy wasnt their to help him, he will think I don't love him now.
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He only fell down 3 but she said he bumped his head at the front but OH said no lump - do you think he will be ok. Told OH if he sent calpol can give nurofen before bed if his temp is badly high....he said ''cant rem if I sent calpol or nurofen'' so ive had a go saying a) you should not and do not need to send nurofen (I only like him to have this in emergancys or excessivly high temp) and b) you need to know what medicine your sending to give to him as if he were to go to hospital they would want to know and it wouldnt look good if you just bloody shrugged and said it was very important. So I told him to go to kitchen and look to see what bottle he used, just got a text saying ''dont know can't remember'' I mean FFS whats wrong with him, I mean he is really cut up about his grandad and not really taking it to well but he should be making sure he knows what bloody medicine he is passing out for Oran. Ill be getting his bag ready tomorrow morning I can tell you.
i.e he stand up, looks at me and just leans forward expecting me to catch him (weather im their or not). I think this time, it was the shock of her shouting though to FIL while he was concentraiting on climbing, he turned round to quick to see who she was shouting to and lost his footing - least he wasnt at the top!!
