Having a bad day :(

[Cupcake78]

Hi everyone, hope you are all well and enjoying your takeaways! I am feeling a bit down today, been feeling quite sick and tired. Been on the sofa wrapped in a duvet all day. Feeling really guilty because the house is a mess and I really don't feel up to doing anything but it really annoys me! My oh is on 12 hour night shifts so is sleeping all day and has just left for work. I have spent the last 15 mins sobbing to myself because I feel so bad! I am also lonely without him

 

[HeppiBean]

Aw hun hope you're ok? The sickness is terrible at first isn't it? I spent a lot of time curled up in bed feeling very sorry for myself with my OH running around getting me drinks and helping if I had a particularly bad bought of yucky! lol
My OH is here all the time luckily for me but I can imagine what it would be like being on my own when things are bad... Just keep your chin up things do get better.
How far along are you?x

 

[ss79]

Everybody has bad days, don't stress or feel bad about it. I'm having a good day and my house is still a disaster zone so don't feel guilty Get your fav food, curl up and watch Saturday night tv. A good day will come soon xx

 

[Sarah13]

This nausea and sickness is so hard at times, hopefully it will end soon. Totally understand the loneliness, my hubby is just home after a month off shore and it can be so hard at times, he's on a boys night out tonight thats been arranged for a while so I'm fed up too, can't wait til I feel up for a night out with the girlies again soon! He did feel a bit guilty leaving me but he probably needs time away from my moaning and baby talk already! A good cry always helps, and stuff the housework it wont be long before we're clean freaks and nesting!

 

[Cupcake78]

Hi! I am 10+5. Been suffering since the day week 6 started! I am VV happy to be expecting but sometimes the constant bleughness gets me down! I think I am just feeling lonely too because oh is working. I feel so guilty because normally I get his tea ready and his sandwiches but it is hard for me just now. He doesn't moan bless him and on his days off he runs around after me and is great! I don't expect him to clean the house but I can't stand seeing it getting messier and messier! I hope I feel well enough soon to get stuck in to it! Sorry for the moan, I just have no one to talk to. I see you are 19 weeks, how do you feel? x

 

[Cupcake78]

Thanks for your lovely replies ladies, its nice to know I'm not alone I have had a melted Snickers and some Hula Hoops! Not ideal I know but I am really struggling to find foods that I can eat. I have ibs and gluten intolerance so I limited enough as it is! Watching James Bond on telly now to try and cheer myself up!

 

[HeppiBean]

Hi! I am 10+5. Been suffering since the day week 6 started! I am VV happy to be expecting but sometimes the constant bleughness gets me down! I think I am just feeling lonely too because oh is working. I feel so guilty because normally I get his tea ready and his sandwiches but it is hard for me just now. He doesn't moan bless him and on his days off he runs around after me and is great! I don't expect him to clean the house but I can't stand seeing it getting messier and messier! I hope I feel well enough soon to get stuck in to it! Sorry for the moan, I just have no one to talk to. I see you are 19 weeks, how do you feel? x

Hey, we're all in pretty much the same boat and trust me... I've been a moody moany cow through the last few months lol. I'm sure your OH understands about dinner and the house and everything... Mine's been a star

Yehh, 19 weeks! Can't believe it! But I feel great... Up until last week I was still getting sickness on and off but this week has been great finally feel like I'm blooming My bumps started showing, my moods lifted, I'm excited about finding out whether I'm having a lil boy or girl... Kinda feel like I'm finally settling into the whole being pregnant thing if you know what I mean... Around 8-13/14 weeks were the worst for me and sickness though, but trust me.... It does get better xx

 

[Cupcake78]

Thats great that you are feeling better and can enjoy your pregnancy properly now, you must be so excited to find out the sex! My 12 week scan is a week on Monday and I am excited and nervous at the same time, just anxious to know that things are alright. I am looking forward to telling people too, I told my boss last week as I wanted to explain why I seemed ill all the time and he has been great. Really pleased and excited for me! My OH has been brill too, he looks after me when hes not working, I don't know what I'd do without him as my parents live about an hour or so away.

 

[HeppiBean]

Well thats good hope ur scan goes ok! I was terrified before mine was convinced the sonographer was going to tell me I was going crazy and I wasn't pregnant at all but I was ha ha
<<< My lil bean at 11 weeks he he xx

 

[Cupcake78]

What a brilliant picture! I feel the same, maybe the four tests were wrong and theres another reason I feel like death! OH keeps kidding me on and saying theres 2 in there!

 

[HeppiBean]

Even now... Weeks after the scan where there is CLEARLY only one baby my OH keeps saying I'm having twins cause my bumps on the large side lol If he jinx's it I'll kill him!! ha ha

I will tell you one really annoying factor of pregnancy which hasn't got any easier though.... The tiredness.... Feel like I never get enough sleep when I'm sleeping about 13 hours a night :/

And now my cats are fighting on my feet.... Nice :/ lool xxx

 

[Cupcake78]

Oh lordy! I am ready for bed at 9pm these days and if I'm not working the next day can easily sleep till lunch! I have just tucked my trusty black labrador in his bed and will watch Miami Vice till I fall asleep. What an exciting Saturday night! My OH just likes to kid me on! He also says he was something ridiculous like 20 lbs at birth! He won't be laughing for long if it is twins!!!

 

[HeppiBean]

ha ha well good luck and let me know how things go

im off to sleep now with the cats as i cant get rid of em lol

nightt xx

 

[Cupcake78]

Not really feeling any better today, have just woken up after sleeping since about 11 last night! OH is in bed as hes on another night shift later Theres not much to eat in the house and I don't feel up to getting ready and driving to the shops, plus I need petrol and the last time I went the smell of petrol was so strong I couldn't stand it! Listen to me moaning again! I am lucky I can lounge on the sofa all day and not have to look after little ones or work. Although I am working at 9am tomorrow

 

[HeppiBean]

just remember to keep your chin up hun lucky you having lots of sleep though! LO woke me up at 5 kickin the sh** outta me

 

[Cupcake78]

Yeah, I wish we could store sleep so that in the future when we can't sleep we could use it! I just know I won't be able to sleep tonight and I have to get up at 7 for work. I'm usually yawning all day!

 

[HeppiBean]

Oh hun I don't have to be up early thankfully, but knowing this little terror I will be.... xx

 

[cherrybinky]

Just seen this post. HUGS. I felt like that the other night, was sobbing and feeling sorry for myself. Im full of cold with chesty cough and work was getting to me too Today Ive got up and cleaned the house and we've all been out to do shopping and now I just want to go to bed but cant. We all have a right to have a couple of days like this. Sod housework, relax with blanky x

 

[Cupcake78]

Sometimes hormones get the better of us and we need a good cry! I really feel for you not being able to go to bed, I know I am lucky I can. For some reason the weekends are harder for me. I think when I am working during the week and forced to get up and be active it helps a little. If the nausea would just lift then I feel like I could get on with things a little! I have done a washing and hung it up but thats only the tip of the iceberg!

 

[jennyjuniper]

I'm so glad someone else is feeling like me! I too am having a bad day. Just feel really useless and stupid because i'm wanting to lie around crying all day! Have a ton of marking to do though so feeling a bit stressed due to that and trying to keep my pregnancy under wraps in work until week 12 is proving difficult! Eating - marking - eating - marking - playing with the dog - marking. That's the order of the day!

Sounds like you are picking up though the hula Hoops must do that trick!