pinkyprincess
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Have you and OH figured out who would be your child's legal guardians should something happen to you both?
I'm FUMING as my OH has turned it into an argument.
I suggested my aunt as she's about to get married, just brought a big house and is about to have IVF so her child would be a similar age. She's also got a good well paying job. He took offence because she lives about 45 mins away from us so he's worried about Tyler being moved away from his friends. So I asked him who he'd want his mum who I like, but she's disabled I said to him that I didn't think she'd be suitable as she's struggling to pick Tyler up now let alone when he's bigger and he just kicked off saying that 'as long as it's a member of my family it's ok but if it's his it's not' which wasn't my point. He then suggested a friend of his that has no kids that I've only met once!! How is that suitable for my little baby??
How have you lot worked this out?
I'm FUMING as my OH has turned it into an argument.
I suggested my aunt as she's about to get married, just brought a big house and is about to have IVF so her child would be a similar age. She's also got a good well paying job. He took offence because she lives about 45 mins away from us so he's worried about Tyler being moved away from his friends. So I asked him who he'd want his mum who I like, but she's disabled I said to him that I didn't think she'd be suitable as she's struggling to pick Tyler up now let alone when he's bigger and he just kicked off saying that 'as long as it's a member of my family it's ok but if it's his it's not' which wasn't my point. He then suggested a friend of his that has no kids that I've only met once!! How is that suitable for my little baby??
How have you lot worked this out?