GRRRRR so cross feel like giving up!!

[hayes]

As the title says im so cross my hubby has had the run around all wk with the docs and receptionists not being able to get to see our doc or not getting to see his SA results. Finally today he is told the hops has sent a letter and they couldnt do the tests so he has to go back and do it again GRRRR im so cross its been 4 weeks and we are now back to square one.

We are also doing up our house atm and the builders keep not showing up and not finishing what they have started i havent even got a shower and my kitchen is in boxes along with ikea giving us the wrong bedroom furinture i could just breakdown and cry right now.

Im due af in a few days and im pretty sure she is going to show up over jubilee celebrations so i kinda wanted some good news with SA results and house to balance it out. So feel like giving up now i just cant even imagine being a mum right now im so numb by it all.

Sorry its a downer thread.

Just had to let it all out.

Michelle. x

 

[laurat]

Oh Michelle, Im sorry your having a rubbish time! It seems to happen all at once too! Them not being able to do thd tests is not on anx added pressurd on your OH. In terms of builders they do often seem to do their own thing. Just keep thinking that when they finally get finished your house will be good! It is hard. My advice is take you and OH somewhere you like take time together, eat or drink your favourite stuff and spoil yourselves! Big Hug!!

 

[itisbabytime]

No wonder your peed off!!

 

[JJ Mum]

Oh god I'd be angry too Michelle, make sure you mention it when hubby goes in again and so they have to push through the results for you more, give them some hassle! (but you shouldn't have to).

With sorting out builders , thats really stressful, so I agree time out from them, AF coming and just try to enjoy the long weekend with oh, your mummy plans have not changed hun, just slightly delayed you will get there X

 

[hayes]

Thank you everyone, im a lot calmer today.

I have got hubby to ring builders and they are coming weds to finish off the shower thank god. Me and oh have lots of plans for the weekend so hopefully keep my mind off af when she finally flies in.

As for the SA tests im tring not ot be stressed and think im sure there isnt anything wrong and whats another few wks when ive waited a bloody month already. Thanks for cheering me up guys im sooooo glad i have you guys to talk too.


Michelle. x

 

[itisbabytime]

Aww hun! Always better to get it out. Glad ur feeling better today

 

[LD1978]

Glad your feeling better hun. Bloody hospitals are useless - I just paid for a private consultation and was so worth the money.

I think we all feel like it will never happen but don't give up hope - we will all get there xx

 

[hayes]

Il neva give up but it think im getting numb to it all, im so sure that it wont b this month or nxt month etc im actually counting down the months till we can get sum proper help!!

How easy was it to find a private hospital LD1978?? And what did you have done if you dont mind me asking?? Keep thinking it might be time to think about it.

Michelle. x

 

[LD1978]

Hey Michelle - I just went to see the consultant who I would of seen on the nhs - I just didn't have to wait months and months. I'd already had bloods and things done and my progesterone was low so they wanted me to do 2 more months of tests before my next appt.

I just did the consultation private and he has put me straight on clomid as not sure I ov. He did say some ladies don't want to do it until had hsg done and I could do a cycle monitoring but I figured I have nothing to lose from trying it. I'm now back on the nhs list for hsg etc but at least I'm a few months further down the line and am giving clomid a shot. I would of been waiting yonks to even get this far with the nhs!!!

Where are you with tests and nhs stuff? X

 

[itisbabytime]

Haha LD1978 I'm doing exactly dame as u!! We have been going to our private doctor as the nhs queuue where we live is crazy and are about a year ahead of where we would be! Has your private doc done an AMH blood test? Where I am they don't offer it on the nhs and its a damn good job private doc recomended it as I was borderline!!

 

[hayes]

I have had my 21day bloods done by doc and they are fine, hubby has now got to do his test again as they cudnt use it or something like that bloody hospitals!!

We have had a little chat about it and we think that maybe if nothing has happened by end of summer sept/oct time then we will have to do some other tests private as around our way the doc said we will have to be ttc for 2yrs before they will help. Not sure i can wait that long.

Michelle. x

 

[itisbabytime]

Sounds like an idea hayes.

 

[hayes]

Thanks, i always feel better when i have some sort of plan in place. I know it sounds silly but it makes me feel like im doing something and that im that little bit closer to a bfp!!

Michelle. x

 

[LD1978]

Hey baby time - nobody has mentioned an amh blood test is that another test for egg reserve? So what happens next if your borderline?? Were your day 3 bloods ok?

 

[Gizzy Kelly]

AMH is for egg reserve. I hope you are feeling better today. Love Gizzy xx