I'm not expecting anyone to reply, I'm just in a mood and need to vent lol
Joe (my brother, 17) lazy bugger, doesn't really live at one particular house, flits between my mum & dad's houses. He has openly said that this is because he doesn't want to have to pay rent and has so far got away with it!!
I only pay £100 a month rent but on top of that, I cook my own dinner a couple of times a week, buy all the toiletries (shampoos, toothpastes etc) for the kids floor *we live in a 3 storey house and ours is the top floor!* I do all the kids washing and ironing, I clean the house about once a fortnight, I buy milk, bread, treats for everyone (crisps, biscuits) sugar, coffee, tea bags, ketchup blah blah, I do the dishwasher and loads more!
My step dad owns his own business, he's lazy too. He sits at home all day playing computer games while my mum works part time and I work full time. He does nothing around the house. Occasionally empties the dishwasher but that's NOTHING!
Just to reiterate, I'M THE ONLY ONE IN THE HOUSE WORKING FULL TIME!!
lol!!
Anyway, my brother doesn't really have a job, he works with my dad (sometimes) but doesn't do much even when he's there! He's currently "applying" for college courses...
I pay for him a lot. For example, last night I was on my way home and txt my mum asking if anyone wants a macdonalds as I was going to go past it. She replied to say Joe would like one, so I bought him one, not so much as a thank you when I got back! No offer to pay etc. Grr.
I have to ask him 4 or 5 times (sometimes more) when I need him to do something, like bring the washing down, bring the hoover up etc.
I cleaned the kitchen last night from top to bottom and this morning made a start on the lounge. I asked him to take down his plates from the computer and he just said "not now, I'll do it later" while he's typing away on MSN. I said, "no Joe, please can you do it now?" and he just ignored me (my mum can hear all this btw).
So I went downstairs to put another load of washing on and I shouted up "just a reminder! When the dishwasher is empty please can everyone put cups in that and not the sink!" and mum shouted back "why, who's done that?" and I said Joe & my step dad. She shouted back "well you do it! When you get home from lunch you'll leave your plate out!" I thought, hang on a bloody moment, I WORK FULL TIME lol!! I have 45 minutes break during the day, so what if I leave a plate out? It's mainly me who packs it away again anyway!!
Joe does NOTHING around the house and I am constantly clearing up for him. I told my mum last week that I will ONLY wash his clothes, but as soon as they're dry they are going back in his bedroom and if he wants them, he can iron them himself because when he does a tidy of his room (every now and again) he'll put back clean, ironed washing in the washing basket!! Anyway... He just said he'll take them to his step mum to do... She's a mug because she'll actually do it!
I'm really angry about it. Mum said "do you fancy going out today?" so I said ok and she said she needed me to go because my step dad's taken her car out
So I'm now a taxi too.
Don't get me wrong, Mum does a lot around the house but the fact she blatently stuck up for my brother and put me down in front of him has really p*ssed me off. No wonder he doesn't do anything!
I told my mum that when Evie is old enough, I'm going to get her helping me by cleasring away her own mess - because that's what my mum has not done with either of my brothers. I was expected to help because I wanted money and had to earn it (fair enough) but Joe claims he didn't need money and therefore got away with it scott free!
At 12, I had a paper ound with my 13 year old friend, at 13, I got my own one, at 14 I worked evenings at our local beauty salon on reception, at 15 we moved to Sandy and I started working at a hotel as a waitress, at 16 I worked at the chip shop and in Budgens, as soon as I left school I worked full time (which I am STILL doing now!).
I have paid for every single thing myself for Evie. No-one has had to help me financially and as far as I'm concerned, it's my problem, and I should do it myself. I'm a very proud person so at least I can look back and say I did all by myself without a penny off anyone else!! Wish my brother had a bit of that in him
I just feel p*ssed off with everything. I've stopped tidying up for today and I'm going to tell Mum I don't really fancy Asda today (probably accompanied by a smug look on my face knowing me) - I'm immature aren't I?! lol Oh dear...
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Joe (my brother, 17) lazy bugger, doesn't really live at one particular house, flits between my mum & dad's houses. He has openly said that this is because he doesn't want to have to pay rent and has so far got away with it!!
I only pay £100 a month rent but on top of that, I cook my own dinner a couple of times a week, buy all the toiletries (shampoos, toothpastes etc) for the kids floor *we live in a 3 storey house and ours is the top floor!* I do all the kids washing and ironing, I clean the house about once a fortnight, I buy milk, bread, treats for everyone (crisps, biscuits) sugar, coffee, tea bags, ketchup blah blah, I do the dishwasher and loads more!
My step dad owns his own business, he's lazy too. He sits at home all day playing computer games while my mum works part time and I work full time. He does nothing around the house. Occasionally empties the dishwasher but that's NOTHING!
Just to reiterate, I'M THE ONLY ONE IN THE HOUSE WORKING FULL TIME!!
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Anyway, my brother doesn't really have a job, he works with my dad (sometimes) but doesn't do much even when he's there! He's currently "applying" for college courses...
I pay for him a lot. For example, last night I was on my way home and txt my mum asking if anyone wants a macdonalds as I was going to go past it. She replied to say Joe would like one, so I bought him one, not so much as a thank you when I got back! No offer to pay etc. Grr.
I have to ask him 4 or 5 times (sometimes more) when I need him to do something, like bring the washing down, bring the hoover up etc.
I cleaned the kitchen last night from top to bottom and this morning made a start on the lounge. I asked him to take down his plates from the computer and he just said "not now, I'll do it later" while he's typing away on MSN. I said, "no Joe, please can you do it now?" and he just ignored me (my mum can hear all this btw).
So I went downstairs to put another load of washing on and I shouted up "just a reminder! When the dishwasher is empty please can everyone put cups in that and not the sink!" and mum shouted back "why, who's done that?" and I said Joe & my step dad. She shouted back "well you do it! When you get home from lunch you'll leave your plate out!" I thought, hang on a bloody moment, I WORK FULL TIME lol!! I have 45 minutes break during the day, so what if I leave a plate out? It's mainly me who packs it away again anyway!!
Joe does NOTHING around the house and I am constantly clearing up for him. I told my mum last week that I will ONLY wash his clothes, but as soon as they're dry they are going back in his bedroom and if he wants them, he can iron them himself because when he does a tidy of his room (every now and again) he'll put back clean, ironed washing in the washing basket!! Anyway... He just said he'll take them to his step mum to do... She's a mug because she'll actually do it!
I'm really angry about it. Mum said "do you fancy going out today?" so I said ok and she said she needed me to go because my step dad's taken her car out
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Don't get me wrong, Mum does a lot around the house but the fact she blatently stuck up for my brother and put me down in front of him has really p*ssed me off. No wonder he doesn't do anything!
I told my mum that when Evie is old enough, I'm going to get her helping me by cleasring away her own mess - because that's what my mum has not done with either of my brothers. I was expected to help because I wanted money and had to earn it (fair enough) but Joe claims he didn't need money and therefore got away with it scott free!
At 12, I had a paper ound with my 13 year old friend, at 13, I got my own one, at 14 I worked evenings at our local beauty salon on reception, at 15 we moved to Sandy and I started working at a hotel as a waitress, at 16 I worked at the chip shop and in Budgens, as soon as I left school I worked full time (which I am STILL doing now!).
I have paid for every single thing myself for Evie. No-one has had to help me financially and as far as I'm concerned, it's my problem, and I should do it myself. I'm a very proud person so at least I can look back and say I did all by myself without a penny off anyone else!! Wish my brother had a bit of that in him
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I just feel p*ssed off with everything. I've stopped tidying up for today and I'm going to tell Mum I don't really fancy Asda today (probably accompanied by a smug look on my face knowing me) - I'm immature aren't I?! lol Oh dear...