I'm new to this whole forum thing but I don't know where else to turn. I love my husband more than anything but he never wants to have sex. Don't get me wrong, I know he is not cheating and that he does love me. He was in a bad car accident last September and now his back is really messed up. It hurts him to have sex in almost any position. When he is on pain meds he can't get in the mood but when he doesn't take them he hurts to much. But lately it has gotten to the point that we don't even kiss, cuddle, make out or anything! He is afraid that it will lead to sex and he doesn't want that. I had to beg him to let me give him a blow job! And now he is having self confidence issue with his weight. Since he hurt his back he cant work out and he has put on a little weight. And only like 30lbs! He was so thin and muscular before that I think this just goes to his head. I try to convince him that he is just as sexy to me as the day I married him but he won't believe me. In this past year we have only had sex 3 times! I can't take it anymore. I don't know what to do. How do I convince him that I still find him attractive? I will do anything to get some intimacy back in our marriage.
Thanks for reading!
Thanks for reading!