Me and ex are no longer on speaking terms, he was very nasty to me the last time we emailed each other. To cut a long story short he said this pregnancy is my responsibility not his as I was the one who wanted to keep bubba, not him. Anyway, I am going to find out the sex this wkend and I have mailed him letting him know about this and if he wants to know sex aswell can he let me know, if not i will let him know when baby is here. Am I crazy for even doing this? Should I have bothered letting him know as he has shown no interest? Im feeling pretty down at the mo and think I am clutching at straws in the hope he actually wants to know baby. This is not usually like me as I have been pretty strong and my attitude has been to hell with him. I feel I have let myself down.