Give an Inch...

[Jade&Evie]

Take a Mile Anyone???

OH has just phoned to say he's made plans for sunday night, just checking I didn't have anything planned....

I didn't really know what to say- he knows I haven't got anything planned because I would have asked FIRST, but he went out on Thursday night with the same mates (I didn't want him to go but I bit my lip about it... some of you would have read about 'bunny night' )

I am on maternity leave now so I am staying in saving money- its my b'day on Thursday and I have said I will cook rather than go out for a meal cause we don't need to be spending money... I feel like where I gave an inch on Thursday night he is taking advantage of it.

Would you confront your OH about it or just leave it so you don't seem like the nagging bitch indoors???

 

[lella]

This is a difficult one as if you say hes not allowed to go he may get upset and think your nagging. I would let him go but sit him down and tell him how you feel. Tell him that you dont mind him going out with his mates but you are meant to be saving money so maybe he could reduce the amount of times he goes out. Especially as your not even going out for your brithday.

 

[jayla's mummy]

why dont u ask him to use the money his taking to go out with his boys to use it for ur bday insead?
u diffo need to talk to him bout it though hun. i was like that in my pregnancy( a nagging cow) and jus bottled things up, and its really not good!

 

[rachie29]

my OH was exactly the same when I was pregnant.. carried on his social life in the same way he did before, often texting me to say was just having a quick one with ... cos he hasnt seen them for ages

He can still do it now.... of course with working full time, having Holly and trying to maintain a social life he has made himself ill a few times so it is finally dawning on him.

I dont confront him about it its not the way to handle him.. But I make sure there are times when he has to chase me up because it not only drives him crazy it then gives me the opportunity to say well.. whats good for the goose etc....his brother is exactly the same and SIL uses same tactics I do...

 

[mrs_tommo22]

Im not going to say much, but depends on the situation and i bring things up that i feel are important and other times i just ignore it and let it go. As i do moan alot!

 

[trixipaws]

i would probably say something- if ur gonna "nag" him tho, remind him how he went out the other nite to "bunny nite" (yes i read ur post!) and how good u are about it and how many other girls wouldve kicked up a right fuss over it- try not to sound like u bear a grudge tho- and let him kno that u just wanna spend more time with him, and u need him more now ur preggas, and that u cant go out drinking etc so it would be nice of him to keep u company while u hav a quiet nite in.
good luck i hope it goes well

 

[tuck]

I'd say 'Oh that's nice where are WE going', and go with him, have a belated birthday night out after all you're preggie so a couple of soft drinks wont break the bank