told my bloke the news last week

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  1. emylou

    emylou Well-Known Member

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    hes still not said anything and he was far from supportive last time as i misscarried.
    his parents are ace his mum really looks after me (i live with them)
    he just doesnt seem bothered either way
    before last time happened he did say he never ever wanted to have kids and i know this wasnt planned, but theres no way i can do anything about it
    he doesnt understand what it was like last time.


    sorry
    thanks for listening(reading)
    love
    em
     
  2. Lisa J

    Lisa J Well-Known Member

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    hi
    my bloke was exactly the same when i told him!!!!!
    he is gradually geting used to the idea and i try to involve him but let him choose how much he wants to be involved if you know what i mean??
    good on his mum though!!!!
    does he want you to keep it?
    xxxx
     
  3. emylou

    emylou Well-Known Member

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    no hes said he never wants to have kids ever
     
  4. bobtheunfortunateone

    bobtheunfortunateone Well-Known Member

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    *gives emylou a big hug*

    sorry for your circumstances! But a baby does not need a father! (Sorry to say that, but as long as you want it that is all that matters if he never wants kids then he should have had the snip!!) Stop worrying about him and think of what you have been given, everything happens for a reason! And I'm glad his family are supportive at least you know it is not you it is him!

    Go Girl! Think of your self for once! Eitherway it is his choice to stick with you or bog off! Personally the men who cannot face responsabilty are not real men to begin with!

    xxx
    GOOD LUCK You have our support what ever happens!
     

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