Hi guys,
Just wanted to get some thoughts and advice from you ladies who have been through this about how to take care of my girlfriend.
I woke up this morning to a text from her saying she was in the hospital and to give her a call, so I tried calling but no reply, finally tracked her down to a ward and when they told me it was gynae and she had just come out of surgery I knew what it was.
Just come back from spending a few hours with her now, she had a ruptured ectopic and I assume a salpingectomy but she is recovering well, no complications, didn't need a transfusion, she looks well but she's very tired and disorientated still. She says it feels like a dream.
We weren't trying for a baby at all and we won't be in the near future, but obviously I don't want this to have impaired her fertility, but from what I can tell from the stats it's likely it will be fine?
I feel absolutely awful myself, like I have done this to her. We both hate condoms so she recently started the pill but on reflection we didn't give t long enough to kick in and luck just wasn't on our side
I was wondering if anyone can give me any advice about how to look after her, other than talk to her which we will certainly do when she's feeling a bit better.
And also I could just do with someone's take on how I should feel because I actually feel very guilty
Just wanted to get some thoughts and advice from you ladies who have been through this about how to take care of my girlfriend.
I woke up this morning to a text from her saying she was in the hospital and to give her a call, so I tried calling but no reply, finally tracked her down to a ward and when they told me it was gynae and she had just come out of surgery I knew what it was.
Just come back from spending a few hours with her now, she had a ruptured ectopic and I assume a salpingectomy but she is recovering well, no complications, didn't need a transfusion, she looks well but she's very tired and disorientated still. She says it feels like a dream.
We weren't trying for a baby at all and we won't be in the near future, but obviously I don't want this to have impaired her fertility, but from what I can tell from the stats it's likely it will be fine?
I feel absolutely awful myself, like I have done this to her. We both hate condoms so she recently started the pill but on reflection we didn't give t long enough to kick in and luck just wasn't on our side
I was wondering if anyone can give me any advice about how to look after her, other than talk to her which we will certainly do when she's feeling a bit better.
And also I could just do with someone's take on how I should feel because I actually feel very guilty