gets callied evil/nasty :(

[scaredmum2be]

if i end up having a bicker with my hubby or an arguement with my mum i called called nasty/evil

its not nice for them to say that and if i am like that then i dont mean to be infact the main thing i end up doing now is speaking in what i believe in what is right not trying to defend people now days i just come out with things my way prob because im more hormoanal,

but it makes sense to actually come out with the things u shud always say ie.. if someone is to bitch behind your back dont tell this person i said this im like wtf 2 faced more like and thats how i come out with it.

Am i seriously that horrible i so shud i started planning there funerals haha x

 

[Sam's Mum]

You don't sound nasty or evil at all - seems totally unfair of them to say that when you're just saying what you feel

 

[scaredmum2be]

i know but im always in the wrong.
It just hurts words sting me and with my hubby saying it, its even worse.

ive tried explaining that im not evil he says i am when i start an arguement i havent done any thing

and people wonder why im so half the time, im starting to find myself boring now

never felt so low in all my life to be honest x

 

[Lovisa]

Aww hun don't say that about yourself. The nice ones always seem to get more of a hard time.
You are just being you and you are saying it how it is, that don't make you nasty. Its not like you are saying one thing and then saying the opposite after....now thats nasty

 

[Rowesb]

 

[scaredmum2be]

Thanks just feeling very low in myself today x

 

[Sam's Mum]

 

[Rosie's Mummy]

 

[FebMum2Be]

Some people don't like being challenged.. I too am like you.. I would rather say things like they are than be two faced, I would rather be honest hun This doesn't make you nasty or evil x

 

[evie_smith]

aww hun if that is nasty no one would like me i speak my mind if im pregnant or not lol try not to take so much notice

 

[scaredmum2be]

ty hun although im to tired to argue so i end up saying shut up to em now cos i cant be bothered lol.
its not like forever is it lol.

i think i know the reason why im nasty/evil. when i lost my other baby at 3 months in september took us ages to grieve but cos im preg an im worried cos im 11 weeks im nearly at that stage of losin again no wonder ive not wanted to argue but i think thats why ive not been bothered in talkin. aint relationships an life hard lol.

ty all uve mde me feel better in my self xx