i did have a word with her, many in fact. I told her that though she hadnt made me feel like a bad mother, that was clearly her intention and therefore I could not and would not consider her a friend.
She then told me because i am basically an 'angry person' (this woman has met me once) that i 'deserve and should be able to take it' I was absolutely amazed by that, i told her that regardless of what she thinks she knows about me via 'facebook' she actually DOESNT know me and suggesting that you should be less sensitive to a person because you perceive them as 'angry' is absolutely absurd.
I told her i think she is a bully and i think she has looked for the most emotive topic (parenting) with which to have a go at me because she thinks that is where i will be most vunerable, something i find quite frankly disgusting.
So this went on and on and she basically tried to defend herself because 'I should take it because I am angry' which, i must add is bollocks, i have vast amounts of lovely friends with whom i spend time with and i dont need someone who barely knows me, popping a label on me and using it to put me down. What a sad sad woman she must be!
So yeah, its gone and done and dusted now, i think she is HORRID and i have told her so. Hopefully she will change her tune a bit and realise that actually having a go at a pregnant person is NOT nice regardless of how you feel about them and that perhaps if you dislike someones methods of being, you should discuss it with them or f*ck off, not decide to just bully them whenever because you feel you have a right too.
it was a thoroughly horrid conversation and a thoroughly horrid day but i am glad i did it because actually, i think she deserved to hear how she had made me feel and how she looks from it all. Perhaps it will stop her being quite such a plonker to the other people in her life?
anyway... over now, shes not my 'friend' on facebook anymore and she certainly wont be someone i rush out to spend time with.