ooh layla just seen the pic of the dress and its stunning awww its going to be so lovely cant wait to see some pics of the wedding maybe ppl are just being funny as its not very traditional but as youve said you had all that first time round and i think its a lovely idea love the black and red theme i always said if ever i got married again i would have a black wedding dress found one i liked when i was getting married first time and it was beautiful was black with red roses here and there would have loved it but because was big catholic wedding my mum put her foot down ive always regretted not having that dress this is a day you will always look back on so as long as you are happy with everything thats the most important how long to go now hun? xxxxx