first time..... and need help

[babyjaja]

Hi, last week thursday 24th nov (strongest ovulation day apparently) i had a one night stand..... it was the first time i have slept with a man is 5 years...... we didnt use protection and i am on no contraceptives....

i am due on my period on the 8th-10th december..... i have done a test today and it was neg..... i did one a few days before as well and it was neg.... i have twinges in my tummy and feel terrible ratty!!! i really hope i am pregnant..... im just wondering if i have Tested too soon?????

Any help greatly appreciated please

 

[masonowen]

Hi hun, I,d wait till af is due then test again, it,s probs to early. Sounds like you may have a chance.

 

[babyjaja]

im scared of af comin...... im really down about the bfn's i have had......

 

[babyjaja]

when did u test? did u get any bfn's???

 

[baby43]

It may be too early to test XX

 

[masonowen]

when did u test? did u get any bfn's???

With my first I tested 2 days before af was due and got a clear neg. I tested again when af was a week late and got a faint pos. With my second I left it a week after af wad due and got another faint pos. This time I left it 9 days coz we were on hol and I was really worried about flying so I thought it may have been delayed. This time I got a very strong pos. It sometimes takes a little while for the egg to get implanted and secrete enough hormone to give a positive test.

 

[babyjaja]

i tested thursday got a neg... and today and gotta neg..... its 9 dpo...... i wil admit i done a test 3 days after intercourse too xxxx

 

[babyjaja]

also i have no implantation spotting...... this is also worrying....

 

[masonowen]

I think the best thing is to stop testing and relax, you,ll only stress yourself out. 9 dpo is quite early.

 

[babyjaja]

ok thanks babe xxx

 

[masonowen]

Good luck. Spotting can be a good sign, do you usually get it before af?? If not it could be the egg implanting

 

[masonowen]

Just read that again. I wouldn't,t worry about no implantation bleeding I,ve never had it. It not something everyone gets.

 

[babyjaja]

i am worrying about everytime i go to the loo and i wipe i will see blood i am panicking xx