we both decieded we wanted it to be a surprise last time, and were glad we did it was fantastic, we didnt mind either way, although right the way through the pregnancy I thought it was going to be a boy, and I think its going to be a boy again this time.
We have both said that this time we want to find out, although I may change my mind still, it was a wonderfull surprise last time, and you get so few good surprises in life, its a wonderfull moment when they lift the baby up after all that hard work and announce what it is!