Feeling Pretty Down... *Updated 4 months later pg2 pls read*

[tracey 2]

hi hun,

Im so sorry you are feeling like this it really breaks my heart to think of you hurting so much but things will get better i know its not of much comfort to you right now but it will i promise you.

Please go back and see your doc or someone to arrange counselling it will really help. You may have heard me mention this before but could you write everything down bout how your feeling then read it through and then rip it up, i do this a lot and it really helps.

Its hardly been anytime since your m/c and of course your still hurting from it, it doesnt suddenly get better, even though im sure we wish it would.

Im sorry to hear about your friend and that is upsetting you more now as well as thinking about your cousins baby. It may not help you but my friend had a baby shortly after my m/c and i was terrified of seeing her but i went after a couple of weeks and it helped i dont know why but i felt slightly better that i had done it.

I hope your ok hun, you know where i am anytime, ring or text anytime im here for you ok always i mean that.

Il be checking up on you ok! Lots of love and hugs

 

[loz]

Jo - hugs to you. I feel really down today (have replied to another post re why) I can sympathise completely. I thought I had pretty much picked myself up but am feeling up and down emotionally. You are a lovely person and your partner sounds great. Keep going and dont give up hope. I'm sure your friends will be understanding maybe they want to give you a bit of space to recover at the moment. x x

 

[happy-chick]

Nicki Thanks hun x

Happybunny Thanks so much for your kind words & Thanks for all your support you've been so much help to me recently chick x

Tracey You are right in what you have said, I know I can get through this but having a bad patch at the moment. Hope your feeling better too babe x

loz sorry to hear you are feeling down too hun, we have both been through a tough time but we will come out the other end im sure of that! x

 

[breezee1984]

night terrors, feeling ok one minute and wanting to cry and cry the next...sounds EXACTLY like me right now

 

[happy-chick]

night terrors, feeling ok one minute and wanting to cry and cry the next...sounds EXACTLY like me right now

Aww hun

I really do feel for you. Are you having nightmares or night terrors hun?

If u wanna talk PLEASE do give me a shout, im more than happy to listen, we could go in the chat room and use private chat or MSN? I may be able to answer some of your questions.

x x x x

 

[Emmylou]

I've only just seen this. I just wanted to give you these

 

[happy-chick]

I've only just seen this. I just wanted to give you these

Aww thank you sweety xxx

 

[happy-chick]

**update**

 

[tracey 2]

i for one am so so proud of you, that has really touched me wht you said and i know it is all true, it does get better with time.

all my love hun to you and little one

 

[fothers]

I hope your post gives hope to people that it does get better- it just doesn't seem like it at the time or in the months afterwards

Hugs to everyone

 

[babydust]

Thats a really nice thing to do, it gives us all hope that you can feel that low and can never see a way out but you have shown that these feeling dont last forever, TBA i feel a bit numb about this loss i have grieved and spent days crying but all of a sudden i just picked up and got on with life i dont know if this is normal, and if it will come crashing back on me.

 

[babydust]

god i really need to get rid of my picture what hope have i got if i look that misreable in a picture

 

[mum2be?]

Thanks for that hunny, It really does help loads.

We all will get there soon



Just keep the seats warm for us

 

[happy-chick]

Keeping em warm for you all

 

[Alfiesmummy]

Jo you are such an inspiration for everyone, through your own grief you reached out to people and supported them and now your coming back to give hope, you are a very strong, kind, caring and genuine person. This world is a nicer place for having you in it, maybe the world should be filled with more like you. I am so thrilled you are finally getting to a place where your happy because you deserve it so much, both you and sam deserve this lovely baby, and i know your having a rough pregnancy but when you stare into your beautiful babies eyes you'll know all the pain and hurt and the terrible pregnancy is all worth it ... your baby is so lucky to have such a caring mummy. luv ya hun and i wish you every happiness yiou truly do deserve it

 

[happy-chick]

Oh Steph you got me in tears hehe Thanks that means so much to me! I hope it helps people to see that there is happiness at the end of the sadness

 

[Alfiesmummy]

Oh Steph you got me in tears hehe Thanks that means so much to me! I hope it helps people to see that there is happiness at the end of the sadness

oh shut up you batty hormoneal woman haha

 

[Kimberly]

Thank you for this. It really helped me right after my miscarriage to read these posts and then see that you and several others are pregnant again and are doing well. Thanks again.

 

[Baileysmummy]

 

[Happybunny]

Aww Jo, you are soo sweet
It is so easy to loose heart after loss, it is heartening to know that things do get better in time.